Endal: How one extraordinary dog brought a family back from the brink
Endal: How one extraordinary dog brought a family back from the brink
Sandra Parton
Allen Parton
The remarkable story of Endal, voted ‘Dog of the Millennium’, and how, through his remarkable skills, companionship and unstinting devotion, he gave Allen Parton a reason to live again.Allen Parton was seriously injured while serving in the Gulf War. He lost the use of both of his legs, plus all memories of his children and much of his marriage. He was left unable to walk, talk or write - isolated in his own world. After five years of intensive therapy and rehab, he was still angry, bitter and unable to talk. Until a chance encounter with a Labrador puppy - Endal - who had failed his training as an assistance dog on health grounds. They 'adopted' each other, and Endal became Allen's reason to communicate with the outside world, to come to terms with his injuries, and to want to live again. Not content with learning over 200 commands to help Allen complete everyday tasks like getting dressed and going out to the shops in his wheelchair, Endal gave Allen the ability to start living again, and to become a husband and father again in his own special way. This is the incredible story of Allen, his wife Sandra, and his family. And, of course, Endal.
ALLEN & SANDRA PARTON
ENDAL
How one extraordinary dog brought
a family back from the brink
WITH GILL PAUL
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Dedication (#ulink_c786ae09-8451-5071-a970-fadf6ba39c95)
To Liam and Zoe.
Also, to the 900,000 servicemen and women in Britain today who were injured serving Queen and country, and in memory of all those who didn’t return.
Contents
Cover (#ub20e4aa2-a29f-5f55-a19f-c81f13219d16)
Title Page (#uaae161f8-ba04-5871-88e8-df6c1efea92a)
Copyright (#uf255570b-4600-53f3-a886-d53ac768f4bf)
Dedication (#u736fc7e4-0076-5ade-8acd-4d35e612c413)
Foreword (#u177ebb22-927d-506b-9c94-b27eb9c72145)
CHAPTER ONE: Allen (#u2669d1f3-1a2a-51a7-b6eb-a0e24b33be9c)
CHAPTER TWO: Sandra (#u803bddc0-5bfa-554b-afdf-b31d206fa444)
CHAPTER THREE: Allen (#ud5d1dccf-1dbe-525e-94af-2843107815f9)
CHAPTER FOUR: Sandra (#u9c3b7118-67b8-5d4c-8e88-ab7e49c088c6)
CHAPTER FIVE: Allen (#u848410ae-21ac-563a-be0e-5b7539c5375d)
CHAPTER SIX: Sandra (#u271509a1-7967-500b-9450-6dd24267d42b)
CHAPTER SEVEN: Allen (#u834a29c5-184d-55f7-abf2-0710e3e9b65f)
CHAPTER EIGHT: Sandra (#uac8592c7-7ed8-5d3f-ade5-dae8a5d65190)
CHAPTER NINE: Allen (#ub296f2e7-9d16-5de3-a3de-95c60fa1990f)
CHAPTER TEN: Sandra (#uebf8e1d1-13b3-5111-8430-e21a6d1739ca)
CHAPTER ELEVEN: Allen (#u003c1244-0f1e-5418-b284-eae54fa7ade3)
CHAPTER TWELVE: Sandra (#uae122142-7b4d-546d-b69a-fd0434940388)
CHAPTER THIRTEEN: Allen (#u2983c196-ca57-5b7b-acd4-6788adf8a129)
CHAPTER FOURTEEN: Sandra (#u93d2a986-9d1f-5c15-a2cf-65343e7e8c1d)
CHAPTER FIFTEEN: Allen (#u158c1b1c-5719-50ba-a680-c96e25dd9d16)
CHAPTER SIXTEEN: Sandra (#ucb6e3b28-01c0-52ce-b6c5-2a33e5a6ffb1)
CHAPTER SEVENTEEN: Allen (#u7687060f-2fd0-5fd8-a7c0-0189ecf595a7)
CHAPTER EIGHTEEN: Allen (#u7c18421d-c2d7-5f4a-99b9-f2d275ae197c)
CHAPTER NINETEEN: Sandra (#u528be3d6-fa43-51f3-b9fb-edf685339c9c)
CHAPTER TWENTY: Allen (#ua0ae8b0d-f3c8-56db-be66-b8f2e4f87bb7)
CHAPTER TWENTY-ONE: Sandra (#u728177ad-1c3f-527a-839e-04bac60756a9)
CHAPTER TWENTY-TWO: Allen (#u115502dc-149b-5de4-92eb-d1372e2df98c)
CHAPTER TWENTY-THREE: Sandra (#u0b86c127-fc95-59bf-b1dc-67916866b2a2)
CHAPTER TWENTY-FOUR: Allen (#u9d55fa5a-ce44-5330-a01c-2648a7afbecb)
CHAPTER TWENTY-FIVE: Sandra (#ufeeac51e-20cc-5e29-ae7b-83af3a304772)
CHAPTER TWENTY-SIX: Allen (#uaa3f8918-1911-5d73-91b8-8aad603e2186)
CHAPTER TWENTY-SEVEN: Sandra (#ub128f65e-76dd-53f8-bad5-e9ec94207027)
CHAPTER TWENTY-EIGHT: Allen (#uae99d85d-dc00-5a36-84b2-34711ab173e7)
CHAPTER TWENTY-NINE: Sandra (#u4b8bd047-336e-52a9-bb97-cd03df29060a)
CHAPTER THIRTY: Allen (#u56184b57-807b-5c16-98ec-e70273589ed1)
CHAPTER THIRTY-ONE: Sandra (#u95f602ea-41ff-56de-90de-bbeff0f2336c)
CHAPTER THIRTY-TWO: Allen (#u70176941-3f5b-5eaa-9a53-7e85b0b1323d)
CHAPTER THIRTY-THREE: Sandra (#ud7739ef1-a5cd-5ab3-8ade-2e309322e452)
CHAPTER THIRTY-FOUR: Allen (#u53b048e3-4505-56c4-8d20-aac0ec844c14)
EPILOGUE: Sandra (#u7c2c50e4-1071-5c42-b2f1-bcfa7c8f86ac)
Acknowledgements (#ub8415a4c-3e2a-58f1-a677-4e59685f3789)
Plates (#ufd1797e2-a686-50bb-859b-322fbfd92425)
About the Author (#ud079bc16-b90d-5e16-90c9-b92b2ae6aae6)
About the Publisher (#u149fc4b5-f2dc-5aa5-a2bf-050fee61663c)
Foreword (#ulink_32f5a733-e6ad-5e99-b986-ef4824d5b43c)
During the summer of 1999, a News of the World reporter in Havant, Hampshire, saw something he’d never seen before: a dog using a cashpoint machine. Right in front of him, a yellow Labrador inserted a card into the slot, waited while its owner, a sandy-haired man in a wheelchair, keyed in the PIN number, and then it carefully removed the card and the cash. The reporter blinked hard, wondering if he was hallucinating.
When he spoke to the man, a disabled ex-serviceman called Allen Parton, he found out that the dog’s name was Endal and that using a cashpoint machine was just one of his many amazing skills. The News of the World article that followed seemed to fire the readers’ imagination and soon many other newspapers, magazines, TV and radio shows were vying to find out about this exceptional dog.
They only learned a small part of the story, though. They thought they had found a performing dog, while in fact Endal was a one-off phenomenon, an unsung hero who had a profound talent for helping people in need. It would be a few more years before the full story emerged.
CHAPTER ONE Allen (#ulink_df596469-42b0-52b4-bf43-47ec5b86f095)
I opened my eyes. The room was fuzzy and the bright overhead lights were surrounded by blurred haloes. Something hard and uncomfortable was round my neck, digging into me.
‘Are you all right, Allen? Glad to see you’re with us again.’ The voice was cheerful. A woman. I could make out her dark shape by the bed.
‘Where am I?’ I tried to say, but my throat felt tight and the words came out like a harsh coughing sound.
‘You’re in Haslar Royal Naval Hospital in Gosport. You had an accident, remember? In the Gulf?’
The Gulf of what? Gulf of Mexico? Gulf of Bothnia? Persian Gulf? Didn’t this woman know how many gulfs there were in the world? And then I remembered. I’m in the Navy. I’m a Chief Petty Officer. I’ve been serving in the Gulf War.
‘You flew back from Dubai overnight and got here this morning. You must be tired after the journey.’
I struggled to sit up and the nurse took my arm to help. I grabbed at the plastic collar round my neck.
‘Better leave that for now until you’ve been checked over,’ she said.
I wanted to ask when I would be seeing a doctor, but my mind went blank on the word ‘doctor’. What were these people called again? The ones with stethoscopes, who told you what was wrong with you?
‘Medical …?’ I stuttered, then a compulsive twitch made my shoulders shudder.
She answered for me: ‘A doctor will be round to see you shortly. Do you want to have a wash first?’
I nodded yes, and swung my legs round to put my feet on the floor. Everything about the way I was moving was odd and unconnected. My body felt as though it belonged to someone else and I was struggling to control it. What was going on? I leant on the bedside cabinet to push myself up and noticed there was no sensation in my hand or arm, only a kind of pins and needles.
‘The toilet is this way,’ the nurse pointed. ‘I think I’d better come with you.’
‘No!’ I waved her away rudely and forced my left foot to take a step forwards, then followed with the right. I had to think consciously about each step, willing my feet to move. This was very strange.
In the bathroom, I pushed the door shut and leant against it, breathing heavily with the effort of crossing the room. There was a mirror opposite so I lurched across to peer into it.
I looked more or less the same: a bit tired maybe, but otherwise OK. There was a large bruise on my temple that felt tender when I pressed it. The neck collar was grubby, as though I’d been wearing it for some time.
I splashed water on my face, trying to remember what had happened and why I was there. I’d been in an accident in the Gulf, she said. What kind of accident? Nothing at all came back to me. I must have had a bump on the head. That would explain the bruise. Well, it would all come back later, I decided.
When I emerged, a doctor came over to watch me walking across the ward. ‘That looks like a bit of a struggle,’ he said. ‘How are you feeling?’
‘Strange,’ I slurred.
‘Can you remember your name?’
Of course I could. Whom did he think he was talking to? ‘Chief Petty Officer Parton,’ I barked out, the words sounding all mangled and muddled.
‘And the name of your ship?’
I opened my mouth to reply and realized I had no idea. It had gone. I shook my head blankly.
‘Do you know what age you are?’
I racked my brains. My mind raced back over countries I’d seen, ships I’d sailed on, weapons systems I’d helped to design, but I couldn’t think what age I was.
‘Missiles,’ I said, trying to communicate to him that that was my job.
He nodded, and then guided me to the bed where he began to examine me, taking my blood pressure, shining a torch in my eyes, pricking my arm for blood. It hurt. Why couldn’t he have done it on the right side where I seemed to have no feeling?
‘What’s happened?’ I asked eventually.
‘We think your brain has had a traumatic injury. There’s no damage to the skull. It’s all internal.’ He made some notes on his chart, then folded his arms. ‘I don’t think there would be any point operating. We have to wait till the inflammation dies down and we’ll see what happens next.’
I was irritated. Just do your job, I thought. And get me back to work. I haven’t got time to sit around here for weeks on end. My men need me.
‘The staff nurse will give you something for the pain. Take it easy now.’ He turned and walked off.
I blinked. Yes, there was pain. My head and neck were aching. I let the nurse help me back on to the bed and swing my feet up for me.
‘Lunch will be round in a bit,’ she said. ‘Then your wife’s coming to see you later.’
I stared at her blankly. I had a wife? That was news to me.
She frowned. ‘You don’t remember, do you? Her name’s Sandra. You’ll know her when you see her. She’s been very worried about you.’
She left me to digest that news. I lay back on the pillows trying to trigger my memory. Wife. Wedding. Married. I was married. I could remember that it was a good thing to be married. You were in love, and you looked out for each other. But I had no memories of my wife at all.
And then visiting hour came, and a very attractive woman with dark hair and a curvy figure was hurrying across the room. I peered hard as she came into focus. She was definitely heading towards me. It must be her.
‘Allen,’ she said. ‘Oh my God.’ She kissed me and looked into my eyes. ‘How are you feeling?’
And I thought she seemed like a nice person, but she was a complete stranger to me. I didn’t remember ever seeing her before, never mind marrying her. I had no feelings for her whatsoever. Inside my head there was a vast fuzzy blankness.
CHAPTER TWO Sandra (#ulink_e1c38901-a869-5fdc-a190-607e17bb579a)
Allen sailed off to the Gulf in April 1991, leaving me at home to look after our two children: Liam, aged six, and Zoe, aged five. It was always hard when he went away but after seven years of marriage I was beginning to get used to it. It goes with the territory when you’re a naval wife. However, this was the first time since I’d met him that he’d been posted to a war zone, and although the fighting was over and Saddam Hussein’s troops had been chased out of Kuwait, I was still nervous. Every time I read news stories about random shootings, friendly fire incidents or that missile that hit a military base in Saudi Arabia, a knot tightened in my stomach.
I’d been suffering from anxiety and panic attacks since I had a severe case of post-natal depression following Zoe’s birth. Some days I found it hard to look after myself, never mind two children, and I struggled to cope with all the incessant chores and responsibilities that come with running a house. Allen was my rock during that period, the person who could always calm me down and make everything all right. He’d walk in the front door and cook us all a nice meal, and whatever I was stressed about, he’d say, ‘Don’t worry. I’ll take care of it. I’ll go and get the shopping, I’ll pay the bills, I’ll pick the children up from school.’ He was a calm, capable, very caring kind of man.
Now that Liam was at school and Zoe’s difficult baby years were past, I was managing a lot better but I still missed Allen very badly. Silly things, such as the central heating breaking down or one of the kids falling and scraping their knees, could reduce me to a panicky wreck again. He called from the ship when he could, but it was a complicated process. He had to book a call in advance, wait to get a line, and then if I happened to be out he would miss his slot. I had no idea when he would be back in the UK. We were hoping that he would be home for Christmas but there were no guarantees. There never were.
Then tragedy struck when my sister Valerie died of liver failure on Monday 12 August 1991. For most of her adult life she’d been battling complex health issues, but the end came suddenly and shockingly and I was distraught. Right up to the last moment we hoped she would pull through but it wasn’t to be. She left behind a little boy who was just five, two months older than Zoe, and it was a horrible family tragedy.
I contacted the Navy’s Family Services and asked if I could speak to Allen urgently. They called the ship and a few hours later he was able to ring me briefly.
‘I’m so sorry,’ he said, his voice breaking up across the crackle of international airwaves. ‘I just wish I could be standing there right now with my arms round you.’
I started crying so much I could hardly speak. ‘Please come home, Allen,’ I begged. ‘Please.’
‘I’ll put in a request with Family Services. We should know soon. When’s the funeral?’
‘I don’t know yet. Early next week.’
‘I’ll do my best to get there. I love you,’ he said. Then the line was abruptly cut off.
‘Love you too,’ I sobbed into the vast distance between us.
I’d never needed him more in my life, but the next day I got a call from Family Services to say that he couldn’t get leave because it wasn’t a member of his family who had died.
‘It’s his sister-in-law!’ I cried. ‘He was very close to her.’
‘I’m afraid that’s not considered a close relative in Navy terms. If it was his own sister that would be different.’
I argued but they had made up their minds, so I just got on with trying to deal with it myself, along with my mum and my two remaining sisters Marion and Jennifer. There were the funeral arrangements to make, Valerie’s little boy to look after, her possessions to deal with; it was all too much on top of caring for my two lively kids. I staggered through each day, barely coping, just doing the minimum because my energy levels were so low. It was as though there was a huge weight pressing down on me making it virtually impossible to do anything.
Every day I prayed that Allen would at least be able to get access to a phone to ring and see how I was. Even a few words of comfort from him would have helped. I’d never felt so utterly alone. My sisters and my mum were immersed in their own grief and couldn’t deal with mine as well, and the kids were just too young to understand.
The following week, on 21 August, I got another phone call from Family Services. When I heard who it was, I assumed they were calling to see how I was managing after Valerie’s death and couldn’t make sense of what they were saying at first.
‘We’re calling to tell you that Allen’s back in hospital again,’ a woman’s voice said.
‘What do you mean he’s back in hospital?’ I was stunned.
‘After his accident,’ she said.
My heart started pounding hard. ‘What accident?’
I heard an intake of breath. ‘Didn’t anyone call you? Last week. He was involved in an accident. He’s OK, but he’s had a bang on the head.’
‘When last week? Why wasn’t I told?’
There was a rustle of paper. ‘Last Friday, the sixteenth. I thought you knew. I’m sorry. He was admitted to hospital with concussion but then the ship was sailing and they didn’t want to leave him behind so they took him back on board to treat him there. But I suppose his condition has deteriorated a bit so he’s been transferred to a hospital again.’
‘Where is he? I need to speak to him. Do you have a number I can call?’ I needed to hear him tell me what had happened in his own words.
‘I’ll have to get back to you on that. But honestly, don’t worry. It doesn’t sound serious.’ She was embarrassed and obviously couldn’t wait to get off the phone.
Honestly, don’t worry? Straight away I got on the line to HMS Nelson, the naval base he was attached to, but no one there seemed to know anything. They all just promised they’d get back to me. I paced the house waiting for the phone to ring. Zoe was playing with a jigsaw on the floor and when Liam got in from school they started fighting with each other. Kids always seem to sense when you are anxious, which makes them seek even more attention, which just adds to your stress. I suppose I could have phoned and asked a friend to come round and keep me company but I didn’t want the line to be engaged when Family Services called me back, nor did I feel like talking to anyone. I just had to keep myself busy until I found out what was going on.
I was making the kids’ tea when I finally got a phone call, but it wasn’t exactly the information I’d been waiting for.
‘You’ll have to call the British Embassy tomorrow morning and they’ll arrange for a call to be put through to your husband’s hospital ward.’ They gave me the number.
‘How is he?’ I asked. ‘Is there any more news?’
‘No more news. Just that he’s had a bump on the head. Try to keep yourself busy and don’t worry about it too much.’
I thought, Yeah, right, you do that when it’s your husband. I just needed to speak to him and hear in his voice that he was OK. I’d trained as a nurse and knew that head injuries could cause a wide range of symptoms from a simple raised lump through to inflammation of the brain and all sorts of complications. I couldn’t understand why he hadn’t tried to call me himself since the accident. Yes, it was difficult to get access to a phone, but surely the circumstances were exceptional?
When I finally got through to the hospital in Dubai, a nurse with a heavy accent said she would get Allen on the line. I waited and waited, trying not to think about how much a phone call to the Middle East must cost per minute. It sounded as though nothing was happening and I was about to hang up when I suddenly heard breathing down the line from thousands of miles away.
‘Allen, is that you?’
There was a pause. ‘Yes, it’s me. Who are you?’
‘It’s me! Sandra.’ I guessed it must be a bad line at his end. ‘How are you? What’s happened?’
‘Well, I haven’t got any clothes,’ he said.
‘What do you mean?’ Was this a joke?
‘I haven’t got anything to wear.’ His voice sounded panicky.
I frowned. ‘You must be wearing something just now. Won’t that do?’ In the Navy they often lived in the same set of clothing for weeks on end and just learned to live with the smell of themselves and each other. Besides, Allen wasn’t the kind of person to bother about having a clean set of clothes. If he only had one pair of underpants for a week, he’d joked to me, he’d wear them right way round, wrong way round, back to front, upside down, and make do.
‘I’ve got no clothes,’ he repeated.
I was starting to get alarmed. ‘Allen, what’s happened? Why are you in hospital?’
‘I don’t know why I’m here. I can’t remember.’
I asked more questions but couldn’t get anything out of him. He just kept returning to his anxiety about his clothes.
‘I have to go, darling,’ I said at last. ‘This call is costing a small fortune. I’ll ring you back tomorrow, OK?’
‘Right, bye!’ he said and the line went dead.
This was very strange behaviour, and not like him at all. Our international phone calls were precious and we always ended them by saying ‘Love you!’ but he hadn’t given me time. He hadn’t asked about Valerie’s funeral or how I was coping or mentioned the kids. This was all so stupid. It felt unreal, as if it couldn’t be happening. I started phoning around everyone I could think of to find out what had happened, but I just kept hitting blank walls. No one seemed to know.
I hardly slept a wink; my stomach was tight with anxiety and my thoughts raced through endless possibilities. The next day I called the hospital again, hoping to get more sense out of Allen, but someone I presumed was a nurse explained to me that he’d been moved.
‘Where to?’ I asked.
‘We don’t know,’ came the reply. ‘You’ll have to ask his ship.’
I rang the British Embassy, and after some delay they called back to tell me that he was in a hotel room in Dubai. It was two hours before I could get through to him, and we had another brief, bizarre phone call in which he sounded vague yet on edge.
‘Someone’s stolen my stuff,’ he said.
‘I’m sure they haven’t. It’ll be on the ship waiting for you.’
‘It’s gone,’ he said, slurring a bit, which I presumed must be a side-effect of the painkillers he was taking.
He still didn’t seem to have a clue how he had been injured. It was most peculiar.
‘Should I fly out to see him?’ I asked the woman at Family Services. ‘I could find someone to look after the children for a few days.’
‘There’s no point in you going out because I think they are planning to medevac him home.’
‘When will that be?’
‘We don’t know yet.’
I had a conversation with an officer at the base, who said something I found very strange. ‘We’ve got no idea what he was doing off the ship that night. He and a friend seem to have gone ashore without permission and been involved in a car accident.’
‘But how is that possible?’ I asked. ‘How did they get off the ship? Where would they have got a car from?’
‘We don’t know. We’re running an investigation and we’ll find out more in due course.’
I didn’t believe for one second that he had gone AWOL. First of all, it would have been totally out of character for my ambitious, responsible husband, and secondly, I knew how difficult it was to get on and off naval bases. Whenever I went to pick Allen up after work at Collingwood or Rosyth or wherever he was, I had to get through strict security, showing photo passes and being noted and documented. You didn’t just wander on and off ships at will, especially in a war zone. There had to be more to it than that.
During the next two weeks, I only had a few more worrying phone calls with Allen, but dozens of frustrating calls with the naval authorities, without getting to the bottom of what was going on. I seemed to get different people every time, so I had to explain the situation from scratch, then they’d go off saying, ‘We’ll have to see if we can find anyone in the office who knows anything about this.’ It was all horribly frustrating. My husband was injured overseas and I couldn’t be with him and there was nothing I could do to help.
I tried to keep myself busy, doing endless housework, cooking, sewing, covering Liam’s school notebooks with coloured paper – anything to keep my mind occupied. I couldn’t bear silence and stillness because then the anxiety fluttered in like a big black moth. If they were going to medevac him home that meant the injury must be serious. Head injuries can cause brain damage. Why had he sounded so odd when I spoke to him?
‘He’ll be fine,’ I told people who asked. ‘We just need to get him back in this country for some proper TLC.’ If I said it often enough, I could try to believe it.
On 7 September I was told that he was at last being flown home to the UK. I was desperate to see him, and pleased that I would be able to do so soon, but deeply apprehensive about what condition he’d be in.
A random thought occurred to me: this might be a ruse on Allen’s part to get the home leave we’d requested and been denied after Valerie died. Could he have put his career on the line by faking injury in order to get back and support me? Allen was a bit of a comedian, with a taste for practical jokes. He’d say, ‘Do you think this smells funny?’ and you’d lean in and next thing whatever it was would be on your nose, and I used to fall for it every time. But I knew he was far too much of a professional to fake an injury. That couldn’t be it.
I so wanted for him to walk in the door and make my life better. I needed looking after since Valerie had died. I needed my husband.
Once again I was pacing the house, waiting for news. At last the call came to say that his plane had taken off and on arrival in the UK he would be admitted to Haslar, the military hospital in Gosport, where I could go in to see him the following day.
I tossed and turned, wide awake all night long, and my heart was in my mouth as I drove the few miles to the hospital. I couldn’t wait. I was as nervous as a teenage girl on a first date.
I found the ward and picked him out straight away, sitting up on top of his bed and wearing a neck brace. He saw me at the same time and watched as I walked across the room, but he didn’t smile at me or wave hello.
‘How are you?’ I asked, and kissed him on the lips. There was a big bump on his temple that looked more recent than three weeks old. ‘How did you get that bump?’
‘Fell,’ he said, and the word was oddly slurred.
‘When did you fall?’
He thought about this and shrugged.
‘How are you feeling?’
‘Funny,’ he said, and I could hear it was an effort to get the word out. He was almost barking, forcing his throat to emit sound. Then he twitched compulsively, his right shoulder jerking and his face contorting.
I looked into his eyes but could see no spark of my husband, my rock, the man who always looked after me. He looked blank. There was something seriously wrong.
‘You’ve been on an overnight flight,’ I said soothingly. ‘You’re probably just tired.’
He twitched again, a kind of irrepressible shudder. I chatted a while longer then went to find a doctor. ‘What’s wrong with my husband?’ I demanded. ‘I’m a nurse and I’d appreciate it if you’d tell me straight.’
‘We don’t know exactly,’ he said. ‘There’s obviously been some trauma to the brain and we’re keeping him under observation and running tests.’
‘How did he get that bruise on his temple?’
‘I’m told he fell the day before yesterday. Have you seen him walking yet?’
I shook my head.
‘He’s having significant problems controlling his legs. We’ll just have to keep an eye on it all. Meanwhile, I see no reason why you can’t take him home for the weekend. With your nursing background, you should be able to care for him.’
‘Are you sure?’ I asked, feeling hopeful. Surely he couldn’t be too bad if they were letting him out?
‘Why not? Just bring him back on Monday morning and he can see a consultant then. Have a nice family weekend together.’
The doctor smiled and I felt reassured. Everything was going to be all right. They wouldn’t let him home otherwise, would they?
A nurse and I helped Allen to get dressed and walk down to the car. On the way back to the house, I drove slowly and cautiously. I did all the talking, telling him about Valerie’s funeral and the children and everything that had been happening, but I got no response at all. He closed his eyes and I couldn’t even tell if he was listening, so after a while I stopped and drove in silence.
As we pulled into our street, I said, ‘The kids are really excited about seeing you. They’re at Julie’s but I said I’d go and get them as soon as we arrived.’ Julie was my wonderful next-door neighbour who had four kids of her own but was always happy to look after my two as well. ‘Two more don’t make any difference at all,’ she’d laugh.
Allen turned to look at me and I couldn’t read the expression in his eyes but he didn’t seem enthusiastic about seeing the kids. Maybe he wasn’t feeling well enough.
‘Why don’t we go in and get settled first?’ I suggested, and he nodded. He’d hardly spoken throughout the journey, and when he did his speech was very slow and indistinct and he was often lost for the most basic words.
We pulled into the driveway and I walked into the house behind him, noticing that he had an odd, rolling gait. He picked his right foot up high and flopped it down then pulled the other one through. It reminded me of the way the actor John Thaw walked. He’d had polio as a child and would pick his foot up and put it down with a strange precision. As a nurse, I’d always noticed that about him.
Allen plonked himself down on the sofa and sat looking around him.
‘Do you want something to drink?’ I asked.
‘Yeah.’
‘Do you want tea or coffee?’
He screwed up his face, unable to think. ‘The stuff that comes in bags,’ he slurred.
Tea, then.
At that moment there was a burst of squealing and running feet and the children erupted into the house.
‘Daddy!’ they shrieked, over the moon to see him. Zoe leaped on to his knee and Liam snuggled on to the sofa beside him.
‘Get off me!’ he snapped loudly as he pushed Zoe away. The look of bewilderment on her little face was heartbreaking.
‘Kids, Daddy’s not feeling very well. Don’t climb all over him.’
‘I’ve got a new train, Daddy,’ Liam said excitedly. They used to play together with his Playmobil train set.
‘And I’ve started ballet,’ Zoe joined in, not wanting to be left out. ‘And I’ve got a new dolly as well.’
‘Go away!’ Allen snarled, putting his hands over his ears.
They were devastated. Whenever Allen had come back from postings in the past, he’d burst in the door bringing them presents, swinging them in the air and tickling them. They just didn’t have a clue what had happened.
‘Daddy’s got a bad headache,’ I said gently. ‘You know what it’s like when your head hurts. Just leave him in peace for a little while and maybe he’ll play later.’
I sent them over to Julie’s for the afternoon, just telling her briefly that Allen wasn’t very well. When I got back, he was examining two tubes of cream he’d been given on prescription. He had a nasty rash on his feet and another one on his groin and they’d given him a different cream for each rash, but he couldn’t remember which was which. There was nothing written on the boxes and he was very anxious about it.
‘Which cream is which?’ he mumbled. ‘I don’t know.’
The old Allen would have made a joke out of it. He’d have said, ‘I’ll start by putting them on my feet because if my feet fall off that will be fine, but I don’t want the other bits to fall off.’
But he was incapable of joking now.
‘I’ll go to the pharmacy and ask them,’ I offered. ‘Let me just get your tea first.’
Two minutes later, as if I hadn’t spoken, Allen asked, ‘What about this cream for my feet? What am I going to do?’
It was like being with an old person who had Alzheimer’s. When I worked in a nursing home, some of the residents would ask the same question over and over again – usually: ‘When is my daughter coming? Why’s she not here yet?’ That weekend Allen asked me about his creams at least twenty times a day and he never seemed to hear the answers I gave.
I showed him the photos I’d had developed from a holiday we’d had in Singapore and Penang just a couple of months earlier, but there was no spark of recognition. He didn’t seem to remember us being there and I thought that was very worrying. He just looked at each one and handed it back to me without comment.
He didn’t seem to remember where anything was in the house either. I had to show him where his clothes were kept, where his shaving stuff was and how to turn on the shower. My sense of alarm grew stronger by the minute.
It was a sunny weekend so I set up a chair for him in the back garden and he just sat there twitching and rubbing at his rash and fretting about his creams, and a knot tightened in my stomach. This wasn’t my Allen. It was as if a stranger had taken over Allen’s body. How long would this last? When could I have my intelligent, loving husband back?
I couldn’t wait to get him to Haslar on the Monday morning so that they could start treating him. Despite all my nursing training, I felt utterly helpless. I had no idea what I could do to help him. Whatever it took, I would do it – but I didn’t have a clue where to even start.
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Sandra Parton
Allen Parton
The remarkable story of Endal, voted ‘Dog of the Millennium’, and how, through his remarkable skills, companionship and unstinting devotion, he gave Allen Parton a reason to live again.Allen Parton was seriously injured while serving in the Gulf War. He lost the use of both of his legs, plus all memories of his children and much of his marriage. He was left unable to walk, talk or write - isolated in his own world. After five years of intensive therapy and rehab, he was still angry, bitter and unable to talk. Until a chance encounter with a Labrador puppy - Endal - who had failed his training as an assistance dog on health grounds. They 'adopted' each other, and Endal became Allen's reason to communicate with the outside world, to come to terms with his injuries, and to want to live again. Not content with learning over 200 commands to help Allen complete everyday tasks like getting dressed and going out to the shops in his wheelchair, Endal gave Allen the ability to start living again, and to become a husband and father again in his own special way. This is the incredible story of Allen, his wife Sandra, and his family. And, of course, Endal.
ALLEN & SANDRA PARTON
ENDAL
How one extraordinary dog brought
a family back from the brink
WITH GILL PAUL
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Dedication (#ulink_c786ae09-8451-5071-a970-fadf6ba39c95)
To Liam and Zoe.
Also, to the 900,000 servicemen and women in Britain today who were injured serving Queen and country, and in memory of all those who didn’t return.
Contents
Cover (#ub20e4aa2-a29f-5f55-a19f-c81f13219d16)
Title Page (#uaae161f8-ba04-5871-88e8-df6c1efea92a)
Copyright (#uf255570b-4600-53f3-a886-d53ac768f4bf)
Dedication (#u736fc7e4-0076-5ade-8acd-4d35e612c413)
Foreword (#u177ebb22-927d-506b-9c94-b27eb9c72145)
CHAPTER ONE: Allen (#u2669d1f3-1a2a-51a7-b6eb-a0e24b33be9c)
CHAPTER TWO: Sandra (#u803bddc0-5bfa-554b-afdf-b31d206fa444)
CHAPTER THREE: Allen (#ud5d1dccf-1dbe-525e-94af-2843107815f9)
CHAPTER FOUR: Sandra (#u9c3b7118-67b8-5d4c-8e88-ab7e49c088c6)
CHAPTER FIVE: Allen (#u848410ae-21ac-563a-be0e-5b7539c5375d)
CHAPTER SIX: Sandra (#u271509a1-7967-500b-9450-6dd24267d42b)
CHAPTER SEVEN: Allen (#u834a29c5-184d-55f7-abf2-0710e3e9b65f)
CHAPTER EIGHT: Sandra (#uac8592c7-7ed8-5d3f-ade5-dae8a5d65190)
CHAPTER NINE: Allen (#ub296f2e7-9d16-5de3-a3de-95c60fa1990f)
CHAPTER TEN: Sandra (#uebf8e1d1-13b3-5111-8430-e21a6d1739ca)
CHAPTER ELEVEN: Allen (#u003c1244-0f1e-5418-b284-eae54fa7ade3)
CHAPTER TWELVE: Sandra (#uae122142-7b4d-546d-b69a-fd0434940388)
CHAPTER THIRTEEN: Allen (#u2983c196-ca57-5b7b-acd4-6788adf8a129)
CHAPTER FOURTEEN: Sandra (#u93d2a986-9d1f-5c15-a2cf-65343e7e8c1d)
CHAPTER FIFTEEN: Allen (#u158c1b1c-5719-50ba-a680-c96e25dd9d16)
CHAPTER SIXTEEN: Sandra (#ucb6e3b28-01c0-52ce-b6c5-2a33e5a6ffb1)
CHAPTER SEVENTEEN: Allen (#u7687060f-2fd0-5fd8-a7c0-0189ecf595a7)
CHAPTER EIGHTEEN: Allen (#u7c18421d-c2d7-5f4a-99b9-f2d275ae197c)
CHAPTER NINETEEN: Sandra (#u528be3d6-fa43-51f3-b9fb-edf685339c9c)
CHAPTER TWENTY: Allen (#ua0ae8b0d-f3c8-56db-be66-b8f2e4f87bb7)
CHAPTER TWENTY-ONE: Sandra (#u728177ad-1c3f-527a-839e-04bac60756a9)
CHAPTER TWENTY-TWO: Allen (#u115502dc-149b-5de4-92eb-d1372e2df98c)
CHAPTER TWENTY-THREE: Sandra (#u0b86c127-fc95-59bf-b1dc-67916866b2a2)
CHAPTER TWENTY-FOUR: Allen (#u9d55fa5a-ce44-5330-a01c-2648a7afbecb)
CHAPTER TWENTY-FIVE: Sandra (#ufeeac51e-20cc-5e29-ae7b-83af3a304772)
CHAPTER TWENTY-SIX: Allen (#uaa3f8918-1911-5d73-91b8-8aad603e2186)
CHAPTER TWENTY-SEVEN: Sandra (#ub128f65e-76dd-53f8-bad5-e9ec94207027)
CHAPTER TWENTY-EIGHT: Allen (#uae99d85d-dc00-5a36-84b2-34711ab173e7)
CHAPTER TWENTY-NINE: Sandra (#u4b8bd047-336e-52a9-bb97-cd03df29060a)
CHAPTER THIRTY: Allen (#u56184b57-807b-5c16-98ec-e70273589ed1)
CHAPTER THIRTY-ONE: Sandra (#u95f602ea-41ff-56de-90de-bbeff0f2336c)
CHAPTER THIRTY-TWO: Allen (#u70176941-3f5b-5eaa-9a53-7e85b0b1323d)
CHAPTER THIRTY-THREE: Sandra (#ud7739ef1-a5cd-5ab3-8ade-2e309322e452)
CHAPTER THIRTY-FOUR: Allen (#u53b048e3-4505-56c4-8d20-aac0ec844c14)
EPILOGUE: Sandra (#u7c2c50e4-1071-5c42-b2f1-bcfa7c8f86ac)
Acknowledgements (#ub8415a4c-3e2a-58f1-a677-4e59685f3789)
Plates (#ufd1797e2-a686-50bb-859b-322fbfd92425)
About the Author (#ud079bc16-b90d-5e16-90c9-b92b2ae6aae6)
About the Publisher (#u149fc4b5-f2dc-5aa5-a2bf-050fee61663c)
Foreword (#ulink_32f5a733-e6ad-5e99-b986-ef4824d5b43c)
During the summer of 1999, a News of the World reporter in Havant, Hampshire, saw something he’d never seen before: a dog using a cashpoint machine. Right in front of him, a yellow Labrador inserted a card into the slot, waited while its owner, a sandy-haired man in a wheelchair, keyed in the PIN number, and then it carefully removed the card and the cash. The reporter blinked hard, wondering if he was hallucinating.
When he spoke to the man, a disabled ex-serviceman called Allen Parton, he found out that the dog’s name was Endal and that using a cashpoint machine was just one of his many amazing skills. The News of the World article that followed seemed to fire the readers’ imagination and soon many other newspapers, magazines, TV and radio shows were vying to find out about this exceptional dog.
They only learned a small part of the story, though. They thought they had found a performing dog, while in fact Endal was a one-off phenomenon, an unsung hero who had a profound talent for helping people in need. It would be a few more years before the full story emerged.
CHAPTER ONE Allen (#ulink_df596469-42b0-52b4-bf43-47ec5b86f095)
I opened my eyes. The room was fuzzy and the bright overhead lights were surrounded by blurred haloes. Something hard and uncomfortable was round my neck, digging into me.
‘Are you all right, Allen? Glad to see you’re with us again.’ The voice was cheerful. A woman. I could make out her dark shape by the bed.
‘Where am I?’ I tried to say, but my throat felt tight and the words came out like a harsh coughing sound.
‘You’re in Haslar Royal Naval Hospital in Gosport. You had an accident, remember? In the Gulf?’
The Gulf of what? Gulf of Mexico? Gulf of Bothnia? Persian Gulf? Didn’t this woman know how many gulfs there were in the world? And then I remembered. I’m in the Navy. I’m a Chief Petty Officer. I’ve been serving in the Gulf War.
‘You flew back from Dubai overnight and got here this morning. You must be tired after the journey.’
I struggled to sit up and the nurse took my arm to help. I grabbed at the plastic collar round my neck.
‘Better leave that for now until you’ve been checked over,’ she said.
I wanted to ask when I would be seeing a doctor, but my mind went blank on the word ‘doctor’. What were these people called again? The ones with stethoscopes, who told you what was wrong with you?
‘Medical …?’ I stuttered, then a compulsive twitch made my shoulders shudder.
She answered for me: ‘A doctor will be round to see you shortly. Do you want to have a wash first?’
I nodded yes, and swung my legs round to put my feet on the floor. Everything about the way I was moving was odd and unconnected. My body felt as though it belonged to someone else and I was struggling to control it. What was going on? I leant on the bedside cabinet to push myself up and noticed there was no sensation in my hand or arm, only a kind of pins and needles.
‘The toilet is this way,’ the nurse pointed. ‘I think I’d better come with you.’
‘No!’ I waved her away rudely and forced my left foot to take a step forwards, then followed with the right. I had to think consciously about each step, willing my feet to move. This was very strange.
In the bathroom, I pushed the door shut and leant against it, breathing heavily with the effort of crossing the room. There was a mirror opposite so I lurched across to peer into it.
I looked more or less the same: a bit tired maybe, but otherwise OK. There was a large bruise on my temple that felt tender when I pressed it. The neck collar was grubby, as though I’d been wearing it for some time.
I splashed water on my face, trying to remember what had happened and why I was there. I’d been in an accident in the Gulf, she said. What kind of accident? Nothing at all came back to me. I must have had a bump on the head. That would explain the bruise. Well, it would all come back later, I decided.
When I emerged, a doctor came over to watch me walking across the ward. ‘That looks like a bit of a struggle,’ he said. ‘How are you feeling?’
‘Strange,’ I slurred.
‘Can you remember your name?’
Of course I could. Whom did he think he was talking to? ‘Chief Petty Officer Parton,’ I barked out, the words sounding all mangled and muddled.
‘And the name of your ship?’
I opened my mouth to reply and realized I had no idea. It had gone. I shook my head blankly.
‘Do you know what age you are?’
I racked my brains. My mind raced back over countries I’d seen, ships I’d sailed on, weapons systems I’d helped to design, but I couldn’t think what age I was.
‘Missiles,’ I said, trying to communicate to him that that was my job.
He nodded, and then guided me to the bed where he began to examine me, taking my blood pressure, shining a torch in my eyes, pricking my arm for blood. It hurt. Why couldn’t he have done it on the right side where I seemed to have no feeling?
‘What’s happened?’ I asked eventually.
‘We think your brain has had a traumatic injury. There’s no damage to the skull. It’s all internal.’ He made some notes on his chart, then folded his arms. ‘I don’t think there would be any point operating. We have to wait till the inflammation dies down and we’ll see what happens next.’
I was irritated. Just do your job, I thought. And get me back to work. I haven’t got time to sit around here for weeks on end. My men need me.
‘The staff nurse will give you something for the pain. Take it easy now.’ He turned and walked off.
I blinked. Yes, there was pain. My head and neck were aching. I let the nurse help me back on to the bed and swing my feet up for me.
‘Lunch will be round in a bit,’ she said. ‘Then your wife’s coming to see you later.’
I stared at her blankly. I had a wife? That was news to me.
She frowned. ‘You don’t remember, do you? Her name’s Sandra. You’ll know her when you see her. She’s been very worried about you.’
She left me to digest that news. I lay back on the pillows trying to trigger my memory. Wife. Wedding. Married. I was married. I could remember that it was a good thing to be married. You were in love, and you looked out for each other. But I had no memories of my wife at all.
And then visiting hour came, and a very attractive woman with dark hair and a curvy figure was hurrying across the room. I peered hard as she came into focus. She was definitely heading towards me. It must be her.
‘Allen,’ she said. ‘Oh my God.’ She kissed me and looked into my eyes. ‘How are you feeling?’
And I thought she seemed like a nice person, but she was a complete stranger to me. I didn’t remember ever seeing her before, never mind marrying her. I had no feelings for her whatsoever. Inside my head there was a vast fuzzy blankness.
CHAPTER TWO Sandra (#ulink_e1c38901-a869-5fdc-a190-607e17bb579a)
Allen sailed off to the Gulf in April 1991, leaving me at home to look after our two children: Liam, aged six, and Zoe, aged five. It was always hard when he went away but after seven years of marriage I was beginning to get used to it. It goes with the territory when you’re a naval wife. However, this was the first time since I’d met him that he’d been posted to a war zone, and although the fighting was over and Saddam Hussein’s troops had been chased out of Kuwait, I was still nervous. Every time I read news stories about random shootings, friendly fire incidents or that missile that hit a military base in Saudi Arabia, a knot tightened in my stomach.
I’d been suffering from anxiety and panic attacks since I had a severe case of post-natal depression following Zoe’s birth. Some days I found it hard to look after myself, never mind two children, and I struggled to cope with all the incessant chores and responsibilities that come with running a house. Allen was my rock during that period, the person who could always calm me down and make everything all right. He’d walk in the front door and cook us all a nice meal, and whatever I was stressed about, he’d say, ‘Don’t worry. I’ll take care of it. I’ll go and get the shopping, I’ll pay the bills, I’ll pick the children up from school.’ He was a calm, capable, very caring kind of man.
Now that Liam was at school and Zoe’s difficult baby years were past, I was managing a lot better but I still missed Allen very badly. Silly things, such as the central heating breaking down or one of the kids falling and scraping their knees, could reduce me to a panicky wreck again. He called from the ship when he could, but it was a complicated process. He had to book a call in advance, wait to get a line, and then if I happened to be out he would miss his slot. I had no idea when he would be back in the UK. We were hoping that he would be home for Christmas but there were no guarantees. There never were.
Then tragedy struck when my sister Valerie died of liver failure on Monday 12 August 1991. For most of her adult life she’d been battling complex health issues, but the end came suddenly and shockingly and I was distraught. Right up to the last moment we hoped she would pull through but it wasn’t to be. She left behind a little boy who was just five, two months older than Zoe, and it was a horrible family tragedy.
I contacted the Navy’s Family Services and asked if I could speak to Allen urgently. They called the ship and a few hours later he was able to ring me briefly.
‘I’m so sorry,’ he said, his voice breaking up across the crackle of international airwaves. ‘I just wish I could be standing there right now with my arms round you.’
I started crying so much I could hardly speak. ‘Please come home, Allen,’ I begged. ‘Please.’
‘I’ll put in a request with Family Services. We should know soon. When’s the funeral?’
‘I don’t know yet. Early next week.’
‘I’ll do my best to get there. I love you,’ he said. Then the line was abruptly cut off.
‘Love you too,’ I sobbed into the vast distance between us.
I’d never needed him more in my life, but the next day I got a call from Family Services to say that he couldn’t get leave because it wasn’t a member of his family who had died.
‘It’s his sister-in-law!’ I cried. ‘He was very close to her.’
‘I’m afraid that’s not considered a close relative in Navy terms. If it was his own sister that would be different.’
I argued but they had made up their minds, so I just got on with trying to deal with it myself, along with my mum and my two remaining sisters Marion and Jennifer. There were the funeral arrangements to make, Valerie’s little boy to look after, her possessions to deal with; it was all too much on top of caring for my two lively kids. I staggered through each day, barely coping, just doing the minimum because my energy levels were so low. It was as though there was a huge weight pressing down on me making it virtually impossible to do anything.
Every day I prayed that Allen would at least be able to get access to a phone to ring and see how I was. Even a few words of comfort from him would have helped. I’d never felt so utterly alone. My sisters and my mum were immersed in their own grief and couldn’t deal with mine as well, and the kids were just too young to understand.
The following week, on 21 August, I got another phone call from Family Services. When I heard who it was, I assumed they were calling to see how I was managing after Valerie’s death and couldn’t make sense of what they were saying at first.
‘We’re calling to tell you that Allen’s back in hospital again,’ a woman’s voice said.
‘What do you mean he’s back in hospital?’ I was stunned.
‘After his accident,’ she said.
My heart started pounding hard. ‘What accident?’
I heard an intake of breath. ‘Didn’t anyone call you? Last week. He was involved in an accident. He’s OK, but he’s had a bang on the head.’
‘When last week? Why wasn’t I told?’
There was a rustle of paper. ‘Last Friday, the sixteenth. I thought you knew. I’m sorry. He was admitted to hospital with concussion but then the ship was sailing and they didn’t want to leave him behind so they took him back on board to treat him there. But I suppose his condition has deteriorated a bit so he’s been transferred to a hospital again.’
‘Where is he? I need to speak to him. Do you have a number I can call?’ I needed to hear him tell me what had happened in his own words.
‘I’ll have to get back to you on that. But honestly, don’t worry. It doesn’t sound serious.’ She was embarrassed and obviously couldn’t wait to get off the phone.
Honestly, don’t worry? Straight away I got on the line to HMS Nelson, the naval base he was attached to, but no one there seemed to know anything. They all just promised they’d get back to me. I paced the house waiting for the phone to ring. Zoe was playing with a jigsaw on the floor and when Liam got in from school they started fighting with each other. Kids always seem to sense when you are anxious, which makes them seek even more attention, which just adds to your stress. I suppose I could have phoned and asked a friend to come round and keep me company but I didn’t want the line to be engaged when Family Services called me back, nor did I feel like talking to anyone. I just had to keep myself busy until I found out what was going on.
I was making the kids’ tea when I finally got a phone call, but it wasn’t exactly the information I’d been waiting for.
‘You’ll have to call the British Embassy tomorrow morning and they’ll arrange for a call to be put through to your husband’s hospital ward.’ They gave me the number.
‘How is he?’ I asked. ‘Is there any more news?’
‘No more news. Just that he’s had a bump on the head. Try to keep yourself busy and don’t worry about it too much.’
I thought, Yeah, right, you do that when it’s your husband. I just needed to speak to him and hear in his voice that he was OK. I’d trained as a nurse and knew that head injuries could cause a wide range of symptoms from a simple raised lump through to inflammation of the brain and all sorts of complications. I couldn’t understand why he hadn’t tried to call me himself since the accident. Yes, it was difficult to get access to a phone, but surely the circumstances were exceptional?
When I finally got through to the hospital in Dubai, a nurse with a heavy accent said she would get Allen on the line. I waited and waited, trying not to think about how much a phone call to the Middle East must cost per minute. It sounded as though nothing was happening and I was about to hang up when I suddenly heard breathing down the line from thousands of miles away.
‘Allen, is that you?’
There was a pause. ‘Yes, it’s me. Who are you?’
‘It’s me! Sandra.’ I guessed it must be a bad line at his end. ‘How are you? What’s happened?’
‘Well, I haven’t got any clothes,’ he said.
‘What do you mean?’ Was this a joke?
‘I haven’t got anything to wear.’ His voice sounded panicky.
I frowned. ‘You must be wearing something just now. Won’t that do?’ In the Navy they often lived in the same set of clothing for weeks on end and just learned to live with the smell of themselves and each other. Besides, Allen wasn’t the kind of person to bother about having a clean set of clothes. If he only had one pair of underpants for a week, he’d joked to me, he’d wear them right way round, wrong way round, back to front, upside down, and make do.
‘I’ve got no clothes,’ he repeated.
I was starting to get alarmed. ‘Allen, what’s happened? Why are you in hospital?’
‘I don’t know why I’m here. I can’t remember.’
I asked more questions but couldn’t get anything out of him. He just kept returning to his anxiety about his clothes.
‘I have to go, darling,’ I said at last. ‘This call is costing a small fortune. I’ll ring you back tomorrow, OK?’
‘Right, bye!’ he said and the line went dead.
This was very strange behaviour, and not like him at all. Our international phone calls were precious and we always ended them by saying ‘Love you!’ but he hadn’t given me time. He hadn’t asked about Valerie’s funeral or how I was coping or mentioned the kids. This was all so stupid. It felt unreal, as if it couldn’t be happening. I started phoning around everyone I could think of to find out what had happened, but I just kept hitting blank walls. No one seemed to know.
I hardly slept a wink; my stomach was tight with anxiety and my thoughts raced through endless possibilities. The next day I called the hospital again, hoping to get more sense out of Allen, but someone I presumed was a nurse explained to me that he’d been moved.
‘Where to?’ I asked.
‘We don’t know,’ came the reply. ‘You’ll have to ask his ship.’
I rang the British Embassy, and after some delay they called back to tell me that he was in a hotel room in Dubai. It was two hours before I could get through to him, and we had another brief, bizarre phone call in which he sounded vague yet on edge.
‘Someone’s stolen my stuff,’ he said.
‘I’m sure they haven’t. It’ll be on the ship waiting for you.’
‘It’s gone,’ he said, slurring a bit, which I presumed must be a side-effect of the painkillers he was taking.
He still didn’t seem to have a clue how he had been injured. It was most peculiar.
‘Should I fly out to see him?’ I asked the woman at Family Services. ‘I could find someone to look after the children for a few days.’
‘There’s no point in you going out because I think they are planning to medevac him home.’
‘When will that be?’
‘We don’t know yet.’
I had a conversation with an officer at the base, who said something I found very strange. ‘We’ve got no idea what he was doing off the ship that night. He and a friend seem to have gone ashore without permission and been involved in a car accident.’
‘But how is that possible?’ I asked. ‘How did they get off the ship? Where would they have got a car from?’
‘We don’t know. We’re running an investigation and we’ll find out more in due course.’
I didn’t believe for one second that he had gone AWOL. First of all, it would have been totally out of character for my ambitious, responsible husband, and secondly, I knew how difficult it was to get on and off naval bases. Whenever I went to pick Allen up after work at Collingwood or Rosyth or wherever he was, I had to get through strict security, showing photo passes and being noted and documented. You didn’t just wander on and off ships at will, especially in a war zone. There had to be more to it than that.
During the next two weeks, I only had a few more worrying phone calls with Allen, but dozens of frustrating calls with the naval authorities, without getting to the bottom of what was going on. I seemed to get different people every time, so I had to explain the situation from scratch, then they’d go off saying, ‘We’ll have to see if we can find anyone in the office who knows anything about this.’ It was all horribly frustrating. My husband was injured overseas and I couldn’t be with him and there was nothing I could do to help.
I tried to keep myself busy, doing endless housework, cooking, sewing, covering Liam’s school notebooks with coloured paper – anything to keep my mind occupied. I couldn’t bear silence and stillness because then the anxiety fluttered in like a big black moth. If they were going to medevac him home that meant the injury must be serious. Head injuries can cause brain damage. Why had he sounded so odd when I spoke to him?
‘He’ll be fine,’ I told people who asked. ‘We just need to get him back in this country for some proper TLC.’ If I said it often enough, I could try to believe it.
On 7 September I was told that he was at last being flown home to the UK. I was desperate to see him, and pleased that I would be able to do so soon, but deeply apprehensive about what condition he’d be in.
A random thought occurred to me: this might be a ruse on Allen’s part to get the home leave we’d requested and been denied after Valerie died. Could he have put his career on the line by faking injury in order to get back and support me? Allen was a bit of a comedian, with a taste for practical jokes. He’d say, ‘Do you think this smells funny?’ and you’d lean in and next thing whatever it was would be on your nose, and I used to fall for it every time. But I knew he was far too much of a professional to fake an injury. That couldn’t be it.
I so wanted for him to walk in the door and make my life better. I needed looking after since Valerie had died. I needed my husband.
Once again I was pacing the house, waiting for news. At last the call came to say that his plane had taken off and on arrival in the UK he would be admitted to Haslar, the military hospital in Gosport, where I could go in to see him the following day.
I tossed and turned, wide awake all night long, and my heart was in my mouth as I drove the few miles to the hospital. I couldn’t wait. I was as nervous as a teenage girl on a first date.
I found the ward and picked him out straight away, sitting up on top of his bed and wearing a neck brace. He saw me at the same time and watched as I walked across the room, but he didn’t smile at me or wave hello.
‘How are you?’ I asked, and kissed him on the lips. There was a big bump on his temple that looked more recent than three weeks old. ‘How did you get that bump?’
‘Fell,’ he said, and the word was oddly slurred.
‘When did you fall?’
He thought about this and shrugged.
‘How are you feeling?’
‘Funny,’ he said, and I could hear it was an effort to get the word out. He was almost barking, forcing his throat to emit sound. Then he twitched compulsively, his right shoulder jerking and his face contorting.
I looked into his eyes but could see no spark of my husband, my rock, the man who always looked after me. He looked blank. There was something seriously wrong.
‘You’ve been on an overnight flight,’ I said soothingly. ‘You’re probably just tired.’
He twitched again, a kind of irrepressible shudder. I chatted a while longer then went to find a doctor. ‘What’s wrong with my husband?’ I demanded. ‘I’m a nurse and I’d appreciate it if you’d tell me straight.’
‘We don’t know exactly,’ he said. ‘There’s obviously been some trauma to the brain and we’re keeping him under observation and running tests.’
‘How did he get that bruise on his temple?’
‘I’m told he fell the day before yesterday. Have you seen him walking yet?’
I shook my head.
‘He’s having significant problems controlling his legs. We’ll just have to keep an eye on it all. Meanwhile, I see no reason why you can’t take him home for the weekend. With your nursing background, you should be able to care for him.’
‘Are you sure?’ I asked, feeling hopeful. Surely he couldn’t be too bad if they were letting him out?
‘Why not? Just bring him back on Monday morning and he can see a consultant then. Have a nice family weekend together.’
The doctor smiled and I felt reassured. Everything was going to be all right. They wouldn’t let him home otherwise, would they?
A nurse and I helped Allen to get dressed and walk down to the car. On the way back to the house, I drove slowly and cautiously. I did all the talking, telling him about Valerie’s funeral and the children and everything that had been happening, but I got no response at all. He closed his eyes and I couldn’t even tell if he was listening, so after a while I stopped and drove in silence.
As we pulled into our street, I said, ‘The kids are really excited about seeing you. They’re at Julie’s but I said I’d go and get them as soon as we arrived.’ Julie was my wonderful next-door neighbour who had four kids of her own but was always happy to look after my two as well. ‘Two more don’t make any difference at all,’ she’d laugh.
Allen turned to look at me and I couldn’t read the expression in his eyes but he didn’t seem enthusiastic about seeing the kids. Maybe he wasn’t feeling well enough.
‘Why don’t we go in and get settled first?’ I suggested, and he nodded. He’d hardly spoken throughout the journey, and when he did his speech was very slow and indistinct and he was often lost for the most basic words.
We pulled into the driveway and I walked into the house behind him, noticing that he had an odd, rolling gait. He picked his right foot up high and flopped it down then pulled the other one through. It reminded me of the way the actor John Thaw walked. He’d had polio as a child and would pick his foot up and put it down with a strange precision. As a nurse, I’d always noticed that about him.
Allen plonked himself down on the sofa and sat looking around him.
‘Do you want something to drink?’ I asked.
‘Yeah.’
‘Do you want tea or coffee?’
He screwed up his face, unable to think. ‘The stuff that comes in bags,’ he slurred.
Tea, then.
At that moment there was a burst of squealing and running feet and the children erupted into the house.
‘Daddy!’ they shrieked, over the moon to see him. Zoe leaped on to his knee and Liam snuggled on to the sofa beside him.
‘Get off me!’ he snapped loudly as he pushed Zoe away. The look of bewilderment on her little face was heartbreaking.
‘Kids, Daddy’s not feeling very well. Don’t climb all over him.’
‘I’ve got a new train, Daddy,’ Liam said excitedly. They used to play together with his Playmobil train set.
‘And I’ve started ballet,’ Zoe joined in, not wanting to be left out. ‘And I’ve got a new dolly as well.’
‘Go away!’ Allen snarled, putting his hands over his ears.
They were devastated. Whenever Allen had come back from postings in the past, he’d burst in the door bringing them presents, swinging them in the air and tickling them. They just didn’t have a clue what had happened.
‘Daddy’s got a bad headache,’ I said gently. ‘You know what it’s like when your head hurts. Just leave him in peace for a little while and maybe he’ll play later.’
I sent them over to Julie’s for the afternoon, just telling her briefly that Allen wasn’t very well. When I got back, he was examining two tubes of cream he’d been given on prescription. He had a nasty rash on his feet and another one on his groin and they’d given him a different cream for each rash, but he couldn’t remember which was which. There was nothing written on the boxes and he was very anxious about it.
‘Which cream is which?’ he mumbled. ‘I don’t know.’
The old Allen would have made a joke out of it. He’d have said, ‘I’ll start by putting them on my feet because if my feet fall off that will be fine, but I don’t want the other bits to fall off.’
But he was incapable of joking now.
‘I’ll go to the pharmacy and ask them,’ I offered. ‘Let me just get your tea first.’
Two minutes later, as if I hadn’t spoken, Allen asked, ‘What about this cream for my feet? What am I going to do?’
It was like being with an old person who had Alzheimer’s. When I worked in a nursing home, some of the residents would ask the same question over and over again – usually: ‘When is my daughter coming? Why’s she not here yet?’ That weekend Allen asked me about his creams at least twenty times a day and he never seemed to hear the answers I gave.
I showed him the photos I’d had developed from a holiday we’d had in Singapore and Penang just a couple of months earlier, but there was no spark of recognition. He didn’t seem to remember us being there and I thought that was very worrying. He just looked at each one and handed it back to me without comment.
He didn’t seem to remember where anything was in the house either. I had to show him where his clothes were kept, where his shaving stuff was and how to turn on the shower. My sense of alarm grew stronger by the minute.
It was a sunny weekend so I set up a chair for him in the back garden and he just sat there twitching and rubbing at his rash and fretting about his creams, and a knot tightened in my stomach. This wasn’t my Allen. It was as if a stranger had taken over Allen’s body. How long would this last? When could I have my intelligent, loving husband back?
I couldn’t wait to get him to Haslar on the Monday morning so that they could start treating him. Despite all my nursing training, I felt utterly helpless. I had no idea what I could do to help him. Whatever it took, I would do it – but I didn’t have a clue where to even start.
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Sandra Parton и Allen Parton
Тип: электронная книга
Жанр: Спорт, фитнес
Язык: на английском языке
Издательство: HarperCollins
Дата публикации: 25.04.2024
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О книге: The remarkable story of Endal, voted ‘Dog of the Millennium’, and how, through his remarkable skills, companionship and unstinting devotion, he gave Allen Parton a reason to live again.Allen Parton was seriously injured while serving in the Gulf War. He lost the use of both of his legs, plus all memories of his children and much of his marriage. He was left unable to walk, talk or write – isolated in his own world. After five years of intensive therapy and rehab, he was still angry, bitter and unable to talk. Until a chance encounter with a Labrador puppy – Endal – who had failed his training as an assistance dog on health grounds. They ′adopted′ each other, and Endal became Allen′s reason to communicate with the outside world, to come to terms with his injuries, and to want to live again. Not content with learning over 200 commands to help Allen complete everyday tasks like getting dressed and going out to the shops in his wheelchair, Endal gave Allen the ability to start living again, and to become a husband and father again in his own special way. This is the incredible story of Allen, his wife Sandra, and his family. And, of course, Endal.