What’s Your Chinese Love Sign?
What’s Your Chinese Love Sign?
Neil Somerville
Are you a sensual horse, an amorous goat or a quiet, seductive snake? All is revealed in this fascinating and fun guide to the 12 signs of the Chinese zodiac.Bestselling author Neil Somerville looks at the personalites of each sign, providing invaluable insights into how different signs relate to each other and offering an illuminating view of how different signs react when in love.Find out which signs will bring you the most happiness, which signs will give you the perfect love match, and how you can make the most of relationships with friends, business associates and children. For example, TIgers are born leaders who should match up with monkeys (for a sizzling romance) dogs (for a harmonious relationship) or horses (with whom you have much in common).
WHAT'S YOUR
CHINESE
LOVE SIGN?
Neil Somerville
Those who love others are always loved in return.
Chinese proverb
Contents
COVER (#ue0958387-07ae-5289-b2ad-98cbbc95e2d2)
TITLE PAGE (#u60572b4d-82c2-5d0d-94a9-eb373d6f5f44)
EPIGRAPH (#u97650a44-5b4c-50a9-b151-e909ca5b71d6)
LIST OF CHINESE LOVE SIGN COMBINATIONS (#u927c7e0e-0fb6-5ac6-888b-5ed78af18129)
INTRODUCTION (#ulink_adb76967-5c9f-53df-814f-9559ffcbb7d0)
THE RAT (#ulink_ba70af50-d2c7-5356-ac91-26e540f490d7)
THE OX (#ulink_8ec3f023-cd72-5381-93cb-115f34e2ee7e)
THE TIGER (#litres_trial_promo)
THE RABBIT (#litres_trial_promo)
THE DRAGON (#litres_trial_promo)
THE SNAKE (#litres_trial_promo)
THE HORSE (#litres_trial_promo)
THE GOAT (#litres_trial_promo)
THE MONKEY (#litres_trial_promo)
THE ROOSTER (#litres_trial_promo)
THE DOG (#litres_trial_promo)
THE PIG (#litres_trial_promo)
THE CHINESE YEARS (#litres_trial_promo)
KEEP READING (#litres_trial_promo)
COPYRIGHT (#litres_trial_promo)
ABOUT THE PUBLISHER (#litres_trial_promo)
List of Chinese Love Sign Combinations (#u32a9e6ca-bc87-5a9d-96f3-c839ee66461c)
Rat and Rat (#ua0bf0500-d94c-4185-802e-18b9ec654fb7)
Rat and Ox (#uc730455c-42fa-4a7c-9963-e48413535404)
Rat and Tiger (#uf4a10c9f-df9a-430d-b8c9-2e6cb92e4f5b)
Rat and Rabbit (#u71ebd78f-8ab0-4ac0-882d-28d3bd47ead0)
Rat and Dragon (#udc459cf5-1029-49a3-8620-4784ae233854)
Rat and Snake (#u48271ae3-9618-4535-a872-301fd392c34f)
Rat and Horse (#uaccdfc42-5242-49c4-99e0-814ec3914db0)
Rat and Goat (#u3af3110c-af88-4545-9a63-3236b65faf87)
Rat and Monkey (#ub24d0693-03bc-4ea4-9e8f-b52df0327225)
Rat and Rooster (#uc3e560e4-7525-4e09-bc7a-3462e6fe2b4a)
Rat and Dog (#u0308bdee-bb99-43de-b349-756e00d29d0d)
Rat and Pig (#u228d808a-cdd5-4c56-a712-574f216b2d2b)
Ox and Rat (#uc730455c-42fa-4a7c-9963-e48413535404)
Ox and Ox (#ue7606914-f424-4860-861a-193f9f70017a)
Ox and Tiger (#ubf5ccc7b-405d-4ea2-ba34-f5e8fe334795)
Ox and Rabbit (#u86c1b121-8a9e-46f6-8906-ba766f96bf72)
Ox and Dragon (#uf27a25f8-face-4ac3-bf98-be7eaf6a0dec)
Ox and Snake (#u6c5dd274-2726-4847-8397-62a36d5da73d)
Ox and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Ox and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
Ox and Monkey (#litres_trial_promo)
Ox and Rooster (#litres_trial_promo)
Ox and Dog (#litres_trial_promo)
Ox and Pig (#litres_trial_promo)
Tiger and Rat (#uf4a10c9f-df9a-430d-b8c9-2e6cb92e4f5b)
Tiger and Ox (#ubf5ccc7b-405d-4ea2-ba34-f5e8fe334795)
Tiger and Tiger (#litres_trial_promo)
Tiger and Rabbit (#litres_trial_promo)
Tiger and Dragon (#litres_trial_promo)
Tiger and Snake (#litres_trial_promo)
Tiger and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Tiger and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
Tiger and Monkey (#litres_trial_promo)
Tiger and Rooster (#litres_trial_promo)
Tiger and Dog (#litres_trial_promo)
Tiger and Pig (#litres_trial_promo)
Rabbit and Rat (#u71ebd78f-8ab0-4ac0-882d-28d3bd47ead0)
Rabbit and Ox (#u86c1b121-8a9e-46f6-8906-ba766f96bf72)
Rabbit and Tiger (#litres_trial_promo)
Rabbit and Rabbit (#litres_trial_promo)
Rabbit and Dragon (#litres_trial_promo)
Rabbit and Snake (#litres_trial_promo)
Rabbit and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Rabbit and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
Rabbit and Monkey (#litres_trial_promo)
Rabbit and Rooster (#litres_trial_promo)
Rabbit and Dog (#litres_trial_promo)
Rabbit and Pig (#litres_trial_promo)
Dragon and Rat (#udc459cf5-1029-49a3-8620-4784ae233854)
Dragon and Ox (#uf27a25f8-face-4ac3-bf98-be7eaf6a0dec)
Dragon and Tiger (#litres_trial_promo)
Dragon and Rabbit (#litres_trial_promo)
Dragon and Dragon (#litres_trial_promo)
Dragon and Snake (#litres_trial_promo)
Dragon and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Dragon and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
Dragon and Monkey (#litres_trial_promo)
Dragon and Rooster (#litres_trial_promo)
Dragon and Dog (#litres_trial_promo)
Dragon and Pig (#litres_trial_promo)
Snake and Rat (#u48271ae3-9618-4535-a872-301fd392c34f)
Snake and Ox (#u6c5dd274-2726-4847-8397-62a36d5da73d)
Snake and Tiger (#litres_trial_promo)
Snake and Rabbit (#litres_trial_promo)
Snake and Dragon (#litres_trial_promo)
Snake and Snake (#litres_trial_promo)
Snake and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Snake and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
Snake and Monkey (#litres_trial_promo)
Snake and Rooster (#litres_trial_promo)
Snake and Dog (#litres_trial_promo)
Snake and Pig (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Rat (#uaccdfc42-5242-49c4-99e0-814ec3914db0)
Horse and Ox (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Tiger (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Rabbit (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Dragon (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Snake (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Monkey (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Rooster (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Dog (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Pig (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Rat (#u3af3110c-af88-4545-9a63-3236b65faf87)
Goat and Ox (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Tiger (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Rabbit (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Dragon (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Snake (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Monkey (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Rooster (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Dog (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Pig (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Rat (#ub24d0693-03bc-4ea4-9e8f-b52df0327225)
Monkey and Ox (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Tiger (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Rabbit (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Dragon (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Snake (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Monkey (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Rooster (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Dog (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Pig (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Rat (#uc3e560e4-7525-4e09-bc7a-3462e6fe2b4a)
Rooster and Ox (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Tiger (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Rabbit (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Dragon (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Snake (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Monkey (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Rooster (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Dog (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Pig (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Rat (#u0308bdee-bb99-43de-b349-756e00d29d0d)
Dog and Ox (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Tiger (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Rabbit (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Dragon (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Snake (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Monkey (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Rooster (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Dog (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Pig (#litres_trial_promo)
Pig and Rat (#u228d808a-cdd5-4c56-a712-574f216b2d2b)
Pig and Ox (#litres_trial_promo)
Pig and Tiger (#litres_trial_promo)
Pig and Rabbit (#litres_trial_promo)
Pig and Dragon (#litres_trial_promo)
Pig and Snake (#litres_trial_promo)
Pig and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Pig and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
Pig and Monkey (#litres_trial_promo)
Pig and Rooster (#litres_trial_promo)
Pig and Dog (#litres_trial_promo)
Pig and Pig (#litres_trial_promo)
Introduction (#ulink_262e002a-f366-53af-9cb0-45f4bf30703d)
Chinese astrology has been practised for thousands of years. However, it is only recently that we in the West have been able to appreciate the wonders of this ancient art.
In Chinese astrology there are 12 different signs. Each sign is named after an animal and each animal sign rules a year. Those born in that year inherit some of the characteristics of the animal.
To avoid the thorny problem of how to refer to the signs I have opted to use the masculine gender, but unless otherwise stated ‘he’ covers both the male and female of the sign.
I believe that the 12 Chinese signs can teach us much about ourselves and our relations with those around us. By understanding strengths and possible pitfalls, relationships can often be better understood and improved. I hope that you will find Chinese Love Signs informative and enjoyable reading.
The Rat (#ulink_1453ecf8-d8c3-575b-af81-caf3e5d2bdfd)
Key characteristics:
Charming, sociable, resourceful, quick-witted, ambitious, crafty.
In love:
Romantic, attentive, affectionate – and hard to resist.
The rat may not be considered the most endearing of creatures, but it is resourceful, intelligent and alert. As are those born under the first of the Chinese signs.
Governed by charm, he has a friendly, sociable manner and a good understanding of human nature. The Rat knows how to put others at ease and is invariably popular. A keen socializer, he enjoys attending parties and functions and has a good appreciation for the finer things in life. He can also be crafty, manipulative and driven by ambition. He likes to keep himself continually busy and one of his main aims in life is to improve upon his present situation.
The Rat is a private individual and will not allow others to pry to closely into his own concerns. He likes to retain a certain independence in his actions. The Rat is a survivor and even when events go against him, he will often be the first to pick up the pieces and look for new challenges.
Being sociable, the Rat values relations with others and makes friends easily. He is supportive to his partner and will try to establish a close-knit family. He tends to have a large family and makes a loving and caring parent. With his wide interests and fertile imagination he will encourage his children but will also be a good disciplinarian.
The female Rat has a lively and outgoing manner, but no matter how successful or busy she might be, her family always comes first. The male Rat is confident and suave. But behind his personable air lurks a sharp mind.
The Rat is the first sign in the Chinese zodiac and, with his charm and outgoing manner, he is invariably popular and well-respected.
Famous Rats:
Colin Firth, Hugh Grant, Prince Harry, Samuel L. Jackson, Katy Perry, William Shakespeare, Prince of Wales.
Rat and Rat
General Relations
The Rat delights in the company of others and when it is another lively and sociable Rat, the two can have much fun together. Between them they have many interests they can share and, as both enjoy conversation, they may wile away many a happy hour locked in intense discussion.
When two Rats work together their combined skills can bring them considerable success. Both are enterprising and opportunistic, and both are keen to make the most out of their skills. Rats sometimes spread their energies too widely and become involved in more activites than they can sensibly handle. If they can control their restless and greedy natures, then a working relationship between them goes well.
In Love and Marriage
The attraction between two Rats is strong. Both are romantic and passionate and they have a good understanding of each other. Both delight in socializing, entertaining and travelling and may have a fondness for literature and the arts.
They place much value on their home life and, if they have children, make caring and protective parents. Rats value their family bonds and the Rat family is likely to be close knit. Although Rats can be indulgent, a Rat couple handles financial matters well and enjoy a good standard of living.
A Rat couple can find much happiness together but they would do well to maintain some separate interests rather than insist on complete togetherness. Also Rats can be forthright and highly critical and this may sometimes lead to acrimonious exchanges. However, as a couple they strive to overcome problems and make a devoted pair.
A good match
Rat and Ox
General Relations
Although the Rat and Ox have very different personalities -the Rat being far more outgoing then the Ox – these two signs get on well together. They trust and respect each other and can become firm friends. The Rat particularly appreciates the Ox’s confident and steadfast nature, while the Ox delights in the vivacity and charm of the Rat. General relations between the Rat and Ox are often excellent.
The Rat and Ox also work well together. The Rat is the master of PR and customer relations while the Ox provides method, order and consistency. They recognize and capitalize on each other’s strengths and there is a great deal of trust and respect between them. Together they can build up an excellent working relationship.
In Love and Marriage
There is a strong attraction between the Rat and the Ox and, in love and marriage, they can find much happiness. The character differences that exist between them often prove complementary and each loves and admires the other dearly.
The Rat is the more outgoing of the two and the Ox gains from the Rat’s vivacity, love of life and sociable nature. Under the Rat’s influence the Ox may become more outgoing and more at ease in his relations with others. Similarly, the Rat admires the Ox’s loyalty, strength of character and ambition. The Rat feels reassured by having such a resolute and reliable partner. Both attach much importance to their home and, if they have children, make caring and conscientious parents.
The Rat and the Ox also seek stability and security in their lives and with the Rat’s thrift and the Ox’s careful nature, most Rat-Ox couples are materially well off.
An excellent match
Rat and Tiger
General Relations
The Rat and Tiger are two lively and outgoing signs and they generally get on well together. Both are keen socializers and, with their wide interests, they invariably have interests they can share. The Tiger is very much taken with the Rat’s charm and personable manner while the Rat enjoys the Tiger’s vibrant, enthusiastic and confident personality.
When the Rat and Tiger work together each is quick to appreciate the strengths of the other. The Rat values the Tiger’s enterprise and enthusiasm, while the Tiger recognizes the Rat’s resourcefulness and ability to spot opportunities. Both are ambitious and both are capable of devising many wonderful and innovative ideas.
In Love and Marriage
The Rat and the Tiger are often attracted to each other. Both have lively and sociable natures and they enjoy each other’s company. They are also both highly passionate signs and the physical attraction between them is strong.
The Tiger delights in the Rat’s charming and sociable manner as well as appreciating his skills as a homemaker. The Rat, in turn, finds reassurance in the Tiger’s confident and ebullient manner.
However, their different attitudes to money may cause problems. The Tiger tends to be generous in his spending while the Rat is more thrifty. In addition, the Rat feels unsettled by the Tiger’s restless nature and he must accept that the Tiger needs a degree of independence. Both are frank in expressing their views and this may give rise to some heated exchanges.
Their relationship may not always be harmonious, but there is much love and passion between them.
A reasonably good match
Rat and Rabbit
General Relations
Although the Rat and the Rabbit are both sociable signs neither cares much for the other. The Rabbit, who has a calm and tranquil manner, feels ill at ease with the active and energetic Rat, while the Rat considers the Rabbit reserved and over-sensitive. They may delight in a once-in-a-while conversation but rarely do the two signs become close friends.
When the Rat and Rabbit work together, however, their different skills may prove complementary. The Rabbit appreciates the Rat’s skills at seeking out opportunities as well as his outgoing and action-oriented character. The Rat values the Rabbit’s organizational and commercial skills and shrewd judgement. Nevertheless, due to their different peronalities, they may not always feel completely at ease working together.
In Love and Marriage
The Rat and the Rabbit are two passionate and sensual signs and there may be a strong physical attraction between them. Both are charming and sociable, are homelovers and enjoy literature and the arts. The early stages of their relationship may bring much happiness, but the longer they know each other, the more difficult their relationship may become. Their temperaments are ill suited and, in love and marriage, a match between them may prove challenging.
The Rat is an active and energetic sign and tends to involve himself in a multitude of activities and interests. The Rabbit, however, seeks a much quieter and more settled lifestyle. The Rat may find the cautious nature of the Rabbit a restrictive influence while the Rabbit may find him brash and overbearing.
A difficult match
Rat and Dragon
General Relations
The Rat and the Dragon get on extremely well together. They are both lively, outgoing and sociable signs and they enjoy each other’s company. They have many interests in common and there is a great deal of trust and understanding between them. The Rat and Dragon may often become close and lifelong friends.
When the Rat and Dragon work together they can enjoy considerable success. Both are ambitious, entertaining and work hard, and each values the skills of the other. The Dragon, in particular, appreciates the Rat’s ability to seek out new opportunities and his skills at PR, while the Rat values the Dragon’s resolute and confident manner. They trust and support each other and in business make a formidable and successful team.
In Love and Marriage
This is a splendid match and in love and marriage the Rat and Dragon can find much happiness.
The Rat greatly admires the confident, determined and honourable nature of the Dragon and finds the Dragon lively and enjoyable company. Similarly, the Dragon loves the charm and sociable nature of the Rat as well as appreciating the Rat’s resourcefulness and versatility.
They love each other dearly and, as both have passionate and sensual natures, the physical attraction between them is strong – together the Rat and Dragon have much fun. Both are also keen socializers and take great pleasure in entertaining and travel. They value their home life and, if they have children, make caring and attentive parents.
An excellent match
Rat and Snake
General Relations
The Rat and Snake like and respect each other and general relations between them are often good. The Rat has many interests, a lively repartee and a charm that the Snake finds irresistible. The Rat in turn admires the Snake’s calm, collected and thoughtful nature. They enjoy each other’s company and while their tastes may not always converge – the Rat is much more a partygoer and socializer than the Snake – these two signs always have time for each other.
In business matters the Rat and Snake work well together. The Snake is the planner, organizer and adviser while the more action-orientated Rat sets plans into motion. The Snake also happily leaves the persuasive Rat to win over their customers but at the same time is a useful curb on some of the Rat’s more risky notions. Both are ambitlous, opportunist and materialistic.
In Love and Marriage
The attraction between these signs is strong. The Rat is captivated by the Snake’s quiet and seductive charm, while the Snake is drawn to the Rat’s warm, friendly and sensual nature. There is a powerful sexual chemistry between these two signs.
The two signs have similar outlooks; both are opportunists and both go through life intent on making the best of their abilities and skills. Both enjoy the material comforts in life and each aims for a high level of security. They are imaginative, enjoy intelligent discussion and may share a fondness for literature and the arts. They make caring and attentive parents and happily devote much time and energy to the upbringing of any children they have.
However, there are certain elements in their personalities that may cause problems. The Snake prefers to conduct his activities in a calm and measured way and may not always appreciate the Rat’s more aggressive and blustering style. Similarly, the Rat may sometimes feel restricted by the Snake’s possessive nature.
A good match
Rat and Horse
General Relations
The Rat and Horse are both outgoing signs and for a short time may find each other interesting company. However, their different temperaments may bring them into conflict and it is rare for the Rat and the Horse to become lasting friends. Both signs can be strong willed, opinionated and forthright in their views and this may lead to clashes between them. There is not much empathy between them and general relations between these two signs are poor.
Problems also emerge when the Rat and Horse work together, each wants to take the lead and dominate. There is mistrust between them; the Horse comes to view the Rat as conniving and thrifty, while the Rat sees the Horse as impulsive, impatient and short-tempered. There is little agreement between them and their competitive and independent spirits get the better of them – not a happy or successful arrangement.
In Love and Marriage
Both the Rat and Horse are romantic and passionate and they may fall deeply in love with each other. The Horse is seduced by the Rat’s irresistable charm and the Rat by the Horse’s lively and engaging manner. In the early stages of their relationship they have much fun.
However, relations between them quickly degenerate. Both the Rat and Horse are strong-willed and opinionated signs. Both are egoists and both want to dominate the relationship. The Rat is open and forthright in expressing his views and has little trouble in igniting the Horse’s short temper.
Differing attitudes towards money may also cause problems. The thrifty Rat likes to keep a close control over the purse strings and views the Horse as a spendthrift and over-generous, while the Horse considers the Rat materialistic and tight-fisted.
A turbulent relationship
Rat and Goat
General Relations
Both the Rat and Goat know how to enjoy themselves and have a fondness for the good life. Together they enjoy wining, dining and leading an active social life. For the short to medium term the Rat and Goat can become good friends but each has traits which irritate the other and in time they may drift apart.
The Rat and Goat do not work well together. The Rat is a supreme opportunist, constantly geared up for action and determined to make the most of his abilities. He is competitive and ambitious. The Goat, however, needs to feel inspired and encouraged by others. The Rat is a self-starter, the Goat needs to be prodded. In work they are best going their separate ways.
In Love and Marriage
The Rat and Goat are both friendly and sociable signs and are often attracted to each other. Both possess romantic and passionate natures and both exude a strong sex appeal.
However, a relationship is hard to maintain and the longer-term prospects for a match between the Rat and Goat are decidedly bleak. As the intensity of their feelings begins to fade they begin to discover the gulf that exists between them.
The Rat is hardworking, industrious and energetic, while the Goat sets about his activities in a more leisurely manner. The Rat is thrifty while the Goat is a spendthrift. The Rat can be forthright and candid in his views, while the Goat is sensitive, shrinks from arguments and takes the Rat’s criticisms very much to heart. The Rat has little time for the Goat’s artistic and sometimes whimsical nature, and in turn, the Goat may come to view the Rat as greedy, meddlesome and fussy.
A difficult relationship
Rat and Monkey
General Relations
With their lively and sociable natures, the Rat and Monkey get on well together. Each greatly admires the other and with their great sense of fun they relate well to each other. The Rat delights in the Monkey’s resourcefulness, wit and keen intellect while the Monkey enjoys the Rat’s charm, drive and ambition. They may become close and lasting friends.
These two signs also work well together. Both are cunning, opportunist and determined to succeed; both recognize this drive and commitment in the other. However both the Rat and the Monkey can be crafty and they may be tempted to outwit the other; neither would succeed, as both are masters in the art of self-preservation. If they can both keep their attention firmly on their joint objectives, they could enjoy considerable success.
In Love and Marriage
The attraction between a Rat and Monkey is strong and in love and marriage they can find much happiness. With their many mutual interests and similar outlooks they are well matched and make a close and loving couple.
Both are keen socializers and between them have many friends. They take great pleasure in entertaining at home. Rats and Monkeys like to live well and, with their money-making talents, most Rat-Monkey couples are financially secure.
The Monkey appreciates the Rat for his loyalty, judgement, enthusiasm and skills as a homemaker. The Rat, in turn, delights in the Monkey’s lively nature, quick wit, resourcefulness and enterprise. Although the Rat is more home Orientated than the Monkey, together they devote much time and energy to their home and to any children they have. Also – as both have a good sense of humour – there is a strong element of fun in their relationship.
An excellent match
Rat and Rooster
General Relations
Although the Rat and Rooster are two sociable and outgoing signs they do not relate well to each other. The Rat dislikes the vanity and egoism of the Rooster, while the Rooster finds the Rat too opportunist and manipulative.
Neither places much trust in the other. Both signs can be notoriously blunt in their views and their outspokenness may prove the deathknell for any friendship that might have existed between them.
The Rat and the Rooster do not work well together. The Rooster plans his activities to the finest detail and is highly organized, while the Rat is supreme at taking advantage of a situation and places great reliance on his charm and resourcefulness. The Rat finds the Rooster too much of a restraining influence, while the Rooster dislikes the opportunistic ways of the Rat. They are not a successful combination.
In Love and Marriage
Initially there may be a strong attraction between them. Both like to lead an active social life, are keen partygoers and both have a deep love of conversation. In the early stages of their relationship they may have much fun together, each charmed by the qualities of the other. However, the longer-term prospects are difficult and each sign needs to make major adjustments if they want to remain together.
Although they may share similar interests, their different personality traits may bring them into conflict. Both are forceful characters, with minds of their own, and each may try to dominate the relationship. The Rooster is precise, orderly and well organized; the Rat prefers to live day to day. There is likely to be much arguing and bickering and, with their forthright natures, each may be critical of the other.
A turbulent match
Rat and Dog
General Relations
The Rat and the Dog enjoy each other’s company and may become reasonably good friends. The Rat admires the loyal and trusting nature of the Dog, while the Dog enjoys the sociable and outgoing ways of the Rat. Together they may pass many a happy hour socializing and exchanging views.
When the Rat and Dog work together they may not always be in full agreement but they may still benefit from each other’s individual strengths. The Dog is not as materialistic as the Rat and the Dog may feel uneasy with the Rat’s opportunistic ways. Similarly the thrifty Rat may despair of the Dog’s spendthrift tendency. However, if they can reconcile their differences, the Dog can gain from the Rat’s confident and enterprising nature, while the Dog can bring order, method and discipline to the Rat’s ways of working.
In Love and Marriage
The Rat and Dog both possess qualities that the other admires and in love and marriage they can form a satisfactory relationship. The Rat greatly admires the loyalty and dependability of the Dog. He is mindful of the Dog’s advice and the Dog is a useful curb on his impulsive nature. The resourceful Rat instils confidence in the Dog and does much to alleviate some of his anxieties.
They are both romantic and passionate signs and attach much importance to their home. They each strive to make their home comfortable, and with their strong family ties, it is likely to be full of family heirlooms, mementos of childhood and other items of nostalgia.
However, problems may arise. The Rat is thrifty and careful with his money, while the Dog, in the Rat’s eyes, is over-generous. The Rat can be restless and enjoys change and challenges, while the Dog appreciates consistency and careful planning.
If they can reconcile their differences then the Rat and Dog can enjoy a content and fulfilling relationship.
A good match
Rat and Pig
General Relations
The Rat and Pig have many interests in common and often become close and loyal friends. They are both outgoing, like socializing and have a fondness for the good things in life. They enjoy each other’s company and often share similar viewpoints. General relations between these two signs are often excellent.
As colleagues or business partners, they can enjoy much success. Both work hard and diligently and both have entrepreneurial flair. The Pig delights in the Rat’s skill in seeking out opportunities and developing ideas, while the Rat appreciates the Pig’s commercial acumen and ability to make money. Providing the Rat does not try to take advantage of the Pig’s trusting nature, they make a successful and formidable partnership.
In Love and Marriage
There is considerable attraction between the Rat and Pig and, in love and marriage, they can find happiness. Both are passionate and sensual signs and there is a strong physical attraction between them.
The Rat and Pig are home-oriented signs and attach much importance to their home and family. They make caring and attentive parents and devote much time and energy into creating and maintaining their home; between them they make sure it is tastefully furnished. Their home may, however, quickly become full; with the Pig’s indulgence and the Rat’s acquisitive and hoarding nature, they could have more possessions than they know what to do with.
Between them the Rat and Pig have considerable earning ability; most Rat and Pig couples are financially secure and are able to enjoy a good standard of living.
An excellent match
The Ox (#ulink_daa3f789-d2d5-54c4-8f40-6eaedbf8b46c)
Key characteristics:
Resolute, strong willed, ambitious, careful, patient, stubborn.
In love:
Loyal, caring and dependable.
Whether ploughing a field or pulling a cart, the ox is a strong and disciplined worker. The second of the Chinese signs is governed by equilibrium and tenacity and has a calm, quiet and orderly manner. While he may appear reserved, he is both resolute and tenacious.
The Ox sets about life in a cautious and methodical way. He plans his activities carefully and does not like change or anything too gimmicky or innovative. The Ox is a down-to-earth sort of person and while he may sometimes lack tact, at least those who come in contact with him know exactly where he stands.
The Ox is methodical, diligent and often a loner. He likes to conduct his activities in his own way and to his own exacting standards. The Ox also prefers to specialize and have set interests rather than engage in a wide variety of activities.
The lady Ox is a practical person. She is keenly aware of her responsibilities and is supportive to her partner and her children. She also takes much delight in maintaining her home and others often marvel at her capabilities.
The male Ox is quiet but confident in his manner. He may not be as outgoing as other signs, but he has a sharp mind and a steely resolve.
However, the Ox does have his weaknesses. He can be stubborn and intransigent and does not adapt well to change. He can be prejudiced, inflexible and intolerant, he also has an awesome temper, although fortunately it is only used on rare occasions.
Famous Oxen
Napoleon Bonaparte, Charlie Chaplin, George Clooney, Keira Knightley, Barack Obama, Bruce Springsteen, Meryl Streep.
Ox and Ox
General Relations
There is respect and admiration between two Oxen but not always close friendship. Oxen are resolute, ambitious and often loners and while one Ox may recognize the qualities and tenacity in another Ox, they often prefer to keep their distance. Each Ox cherishes his independence and each likes to have his own way.
Both are hard and tenacious workers and if united by a common goal their perseverance and determination is invariably rewarded. In a working relationship between two Oxen it might be best if there is a clear division of responsibilities, otherwise there may be a tussle for authority. However, their ambitious and strong-willed natures can make them a powerful force.
In Love and Marriage
Oxen like secure, stable and calm lifestyles. As they have many common interests – and a mutual dislike of change – they may find a certain contentment together. As a couple they will conduct their activities in an orderly and efficient manner and as neither have expensive tastes most Ox couples are materially well off. Both also have practical natures and an Ox couple take much delight in creating and maintaining their home.
Oxen are loyal and faithful and keenly aware of their responsibilities, and as a couple there will be a great deal of trust between them. If Oxen have children they make conscientious, caring – but also strict – parents.
However, problems will arise. Both are strong-willed and stubborn so compromise may be difficult. As Oxen tend to be set in their ways, the relationship may be devoid of excitement or sparkle.
A good match
Ox and Tiger
General Relations
The Ox and Tiger are two forceful and determined signs and their personalities and temperaments simply clash. Neither finds it easy to relate to the other and general relations between them are poor. The practical and down-to-earth Ox finds the Tiger restless and volatile, while the Tiger views the Ox as unadventurous and intractable.
The differences in personality are also evident when they work together. The Tiger, often bubbling with enthusiasm and new ideas, finds the cautious Ox far too much of a restraining and inhibiting influence, while the Ox considers the Tiger rash, reckless and impulsive. Both signs clash and are likely to go their separate ways.
In Love and Marriage
A match between these two signs may prove both difficult and challenging.
Although there maybe initial attraction between the Ox and the Tiger, a relationship will be difficult to maintain. The Ox prefers to set about his activities in a calm, methodical and orderly manner, while the Tiger is far more adventurous and outgoing. He revels in challenges and new situations and indulges in a wide range of activities. The Ox and Tiger live life at different speeds and in different ways.
The two signs have few interests in common. The Tiger likes to lead an active social life, while the Ox is not a great socializer. The Tiger is passionate and seeks fun and – while the Ox too enjoys life in his own way – he tends not to be as outgoing as the Tiger and is far more serious and restrained.
A difficult match
Ox and Rabbit
General Relations
The Ox and Rabbit admire each other and can become firm and loyal friends. Both prefer the quieter things in life and have many interests they can share. They relate well to each other and there is a good level of trust and understanding between them.
Both are methodical, diligent and conscientious workers and they like to plan their activities carefully. In a business relationship each benefits from the other. The Rabbit values the strength, tenacity and resolution of the Ox, while the Ox appreciates the shrewd business sense and commercial acumen of the Rabbit. They trust and support each other well. Admittedly neither are big risk-takers and both are conservative in outlook, but their joint skills usually bring them much success.
In Love and Marriage
There is considerable attraction between the Ox and Rabbit and in love and marriage they can find much happiness.
Although there are many personality differences between them – the Ox being more assertive than the Rabbit – they complement each other well. The Rabbit delights in having such a resolute, dependable and protective partner, while the Ox values the thoughtful, intelligent and affectionate ways of the Rabbit. Both signs are quiet and peaceloving and neither wants to pursue a particularly frenzied or volatile lifestyle. They both value their home life and are most supportive and attentive to each other. Together they appreciate music, literature and the arts and may have a fondness for the countryside.
With their methodical and conscientious natures – they each have the skill to earn a great deal – most Ox-Rabbit couples are materially well off.
An ideal match
Ox and Dragon
General Relations
Although the Ox and Dragon may admire and respect each other they rarely become close friends. The Dragon is an extrovert, always active and a keen socializer. The Ox is quieter, more of a loner and lives life at a totally different speed to the Dragon. They have few interests in common and each prefers spending time with those more in tune with his own interests and personalities.
Relations between the Ox and Dragon improve when they work together. Both are ambitious and diligent workers and each recognizes the qualities in the other. The Ox values the enterprise and enthusiasm of the Dragon, while the Dragon appreciates the tenacity and persistence of the Ox. When united by a common objective the Ox and Dragon make a formidable team.
In Love and Marriage
The Ox and Dragon each have qualities that the other admires and for a time they may be attracted to each other. Each enjoys being with an opposite – an introvert exploring the world of an extrovert and vice versa.
However, despite any initial attraction between the Ox and Dragon, the long-term prospects for their relationship are difficult.
Both the Ox and Dragon are forceful characters and each may try to dominate the relationship. They can also both be stubborn and their forthright natures may lead to many heated exchanges. The Dragon likes to lead an active social life and engages in a wide variety of activities, while the Ox prefers a much gentler existence and prefers spending time quietly at home. The Dragon may feel restricted by the Ox, while the Ox may be unsettled by the restlessness of the Dragon.
A difficult match
Ox and Snake
General Relations
Thes Ox and Snake have much in common and general relations between them are good. Both have quiet and reserved natures and feel comfortable in each other’s company. There is trust and understanding between them and they relate well to each other. The Ox admires the Snake’s thoughtful and reflective ways, while the Snake values the Ox’s caring, confident and determined nature.
The Ox and Snake also work well together. Both are ambitious and keen to make the most of their considerable talents. The Snake in particular values the tenacity, willpower and determination of the Ox, while the Ox values the Snake’s keen business sense and original ideas. They trust and respect each other and as colleagues make a successful combination.
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Neil Somerville
Are you a sensual horse, an amorous goat or a quiet, seductive snake? All is revealed in this fascinating and fun guide to the 12 signs of the Chinese zodiac.Bestselling author Neil Somerville looks at the personalites of each sign, providing invaluable insights into how different signs relate to each other and offering an illuminating view of how different signs react when in love.Find out which signs will bring you the most happiness, which signs will give you the perfect love match, and how you can make the most of relationships with friends, business associates and children. For example, TIgers are born leaders who should match up with monkeys (for a sizzling romance) dogs (for a harmonious relationship) or horses (with whom you have much in common).
WHAT'S YOUR
CHINESE
LOVE SIGN?
Neil Somerville
Those who love others are always loved in return.
Chinese proverb
Contents
COVER (#ue0958387-07ae-5289-b2ad-98cbbc95e2d2)
TITLE PAGE (#u60572b4d-82c2-5d0d-94a9-eb373d6f5f44)
EPIGRAPH (#u97650a44-5b4c-50a9-b151-e909ca5b71d6)
LIST OF CHINESE LOVE SIGN COMBINATIONS (#u927c7e0e-0fb6-5ac6-888b-5ed78af18129)
INTRODUCTION (#ulink_adb76967-5c9f-53df-814f-9559ffcbb7d0)
THE RAT (#ulink_ba70af50-d2c7-5356-ac91-26e540f490d7)
THE OX (#ulink_8ec3f023-cd72-5381-93cb-115f34e2ee7e)
THE TIGER (#litres_trial_promo)
THE RABBIT (#litres_trial_promo)
THE DRAGON (#litres_trial_promo)
THE SNAKE (#litres_trial_promo)
THE HORSE (#litres_trial_promo)
THE GOAT (#litres_trial_promo)
THE MONKEY (#litres_trial_promo)
THE ROOSTER (#litres_trial_promo)
THE DOG (#litres_trial_promo)
THE PIG (#litres_trial_promo)
THE CHINESE YEARS (#litres_trial_promo)
KEEP READING (#litres_trial_promo)
COPYRIGHT (#litres_trial_promo)
ABOUT THE PUBLISHER (#litres_trial_promo)
List of Chinese Love Sign Combinations (#u32a9e6ca-bc87-5a9d-96f3-c839ee66461c)
Rat and Rat (#ua0bf0500-d94c-4185-802e-18b9ec654fb7)
Rat and Ox (#uc730455c-42fa-4a7c-9963-e48413535404)
Rat and Tiger (#uf4a10c9f-df9a-430d-b8c9-2e6cb92e4f5b)
Rat and Rabbit (#u71ebd78f-8ab0-4ac0-882d-28d3bd47ead0)
Rat and Dragon (#udc459cf5-1029-49a3-8620-4784ae233854)
Rat and Snake (#u48271ae3-9618-4535-a872-301fd392c34f)
Rat and Horse (#uaccdfc42-5242-49c4-99e0-814ec3914db0)
Rat and Goat (#u3af3110c-af88-4545-9a63-3236b65faf87)
Rat and Monkey (#ub24d0693-03bc-4ea4-9e8f-b52df0327225)
Rat and Rooster (#uc3e560e4-7525-4e09-bc7a-3462e6fe2b4a)
Rat and Dog (#u0308bdee-bb99-43de-b349-756e00d29d0d)
Rat and Pig (#u228d808a-cdd5-4c56-a712-574f216b2d2b)
Ox and Rat (#uc730455c-42fa-4a7c-9963-e48413535404)
Ox and Ox (#ue7606914-f424-4860-861a-193f9f70017a)
Ox and Tiger (#ubf5ccc7b-405d-4ea2-ba34-f5e8fe334795)
Ox and Rabbit (#u86c1b121-8a9e-46f6-8906-ba766f96bf72)
Ox and Dragon (#uf27a25f8-face-4ac3-bf98-be7eaf6a0dec)
Ox and Snake (#u6c5dd274-2726-4847-8397-62a36d5da73d)
Ox and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Ox and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
Ox and Monkey (#litres_trial_promo)
Ox and Rooster (#litres_trial_promo)
Ox and Dog (#litres_trial_promo)
Ox and Pig (#litres_trial_promo)
Tiger and Rat (#uf4a10c9f-df9a-430d-b8c9-2e6cb92e4f5b)
Tiger and Ox (#ubf5ccc7b-405d-4ea2-ba34-f5e8fe334795)
Tiger and Tiger (#litres_trial_promo)
Tiger and Rabbit (#litres_trial_promo)
Tiger and Dragon (#litres_trial_promo)
Tiger and Snake (#litres_trial_promo)
Tiger and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Tiger and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
Tiger and Monkey (#litres_trial_promo)
Tiger and Rooster (#litres_trial_promo)
Tiger and Dog (#litres_trial_promo)
Tiger and Pig (#litres_trial_promo)
Rabbit and Rat (#u71ebd78f-8ab0-4ac0-882d-28d3bd47ead0)
Rabbit and Ox (#u86c1b121-8a9e-46f6-8906-ba766f96bf72)
Rabbit and Tiger (#litres_trial_promo)
Rabbit and Rabbit (#litres_trial_promo)
Rabbit and Dragon (#litres_trial_promo)
Rabbit and Snake (#litres_trial_promo)
Rabbit and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Rabbit and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
Rabbit and Monkey (#litres_trial_promo)
Rabbit and Rooster (#litres_trial_promo)
Rabbit and Dog (#litres_trial_promo)
Rabbit and Pig (#litres_trial_promo)
Dragon and Rat (#udc459cf5-1029-49a3-8620-4784ae233854)
Dragon and Ox (#uf27a25f8-face-4ac3-bf98-be7eaf6a0dec)
Dragon and Tiger (#litres_trial_promo)
Dragon and Rabbit (#litres_trial_promo)
Dragon and Dragon (#litres_trial_promo)
Dragon and Snake (#litres_trial_promo)
Dragon and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Dragon and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
Dragon and Monkey (#litres_trial_promo)
Dragon and Rooster (#litres_trial_promo)
Dragon and Dog (#litres_trial_promo)
Dragon and Pig (#litres_trial_promo)
Snake and Rat (#u48271ae3-9618-4535-a872-301fd392c34f)
Snake and Ox (#u6c5dd274-2726-4847-8397-62a36d5da73d)
Snake and Tiger (#litres_trial_promo)
Snake and Rabbit (#litres_trial_promo)
Snake and Dragon (#litres_trial_promo)
Snake and Snake (#litres_trial_promo)
Snake and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Snake and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
Snake and Monkey (#litres_trial_promo)
Snake and Rooster (#litres_trial_promo)
Snake and Dog (#litres_trial_promo)
Snake and Pig (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Rat (#uaccdfc42-5242-49c4-99e0-814ec3914db0)
Horse and Ox (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Tiger (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Rabbit (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Dragon (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Snake (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Monkey (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Rooster (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Dog (#litres_trial_promo)
Horse and Pig (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Rat (#u3af3110c-af88-4545-9a63-3236b65faf87)
Goat and Ox (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Tiger (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Rabbit (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Dragon (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Snake (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Monkey (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Rooster (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Dog (#litres_trial_promo)
Goat and Pig (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Rat (#ub24d0693-03bc-4ea4-9e8f-b52df0327225)
Monkey and Ox (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Tiger (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Rabbit (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Dragon (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Snake (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Monkey (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Rooster (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Dog (#litres_trial_promo)
Monkey and Pig (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Rat (#uc3e560e4-7525-4e09-bc7a-3462e6fe2b4a)
Rooster and Ox (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Tiger (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Rabbit (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Dragon (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Snake (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Monkey (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Rooster (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Dog (#litres_trial_promo)
Rooster and Pig (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Rat (#u0308bdee-bb99-43de-b349-756e00d29d0d)
Dog and Ox (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Tiger (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Rabbit (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Dragon (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Snake (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Monkey (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Rooster (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Dog (#litres_trial_promo)
Dog and Pig (#litres_trial_promo)
Pig and Rat (#u228d808a-cdd5-4c56-a712-574f216b2d2b)
Pig and Ox (#litres_trial_promo)
Pig and Tiger (#litres_trial_promo)
Pig and Rabbit (#litres_trial_promo)
Pig and Dragon (#litres_trial_promo)
Pig and Snake (#litres_trial_promo)
Pig and Horse (#litres_trial_promo)
Pig and Goat (#litres_trial_promo)
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Introduction (#ulink_262e002a-f366-53af-9cb0-45f4bf30703d)
Chinese astrology has been practised for thousands of years. However, it is only recently that we in the West have been able to appreciate the wonders of this ancient art.
In Chinese astrology there are 12 different signs. Each sign is named after an animal and each animal sign rules a year. Those born in that year inherit some of the characteristics of the animal.
To avoid the thorny problem of how to refer to the signs I have opted to use the masculine gender, but unless otherwise stated ‘he’ covers both the male and female of the sign.
I believe that the 12 Chinese signs can teach us much about ourselves and our relations with those around us. By understanding strengths and possible pitfalls, relationships can often be better understood and improved. I hope that you will find Chinese Love Signs informative and enjoyable reading.
The Rat (#ulink_1453ecf8-d8c3-575b-af81-caf3e5d2bdfd)
Key characteristics:
Charming, sociable, resourceful, quick-witted, ambitious, crafty.
In love:
Romantic, attentive, affectionate – and hard to resist.
The rat may not be considered the most endearing of creatures, but it is resourceful, intelligent and alert. As are those born under the first of the Chinese signs.
Governed by charm, he has a friendly, sociable manner and a good understanding of human nature. The Rat knows how to put others at ease and is invariably popular. A keen socializer, he enjoys attending parties and functions and has a good appreciation for the finer things in life. He can also be crafty, manipulative and driven by ambition. He likes to keep himself continually busy and one of his main aims in life is to improve upon his present situation.
The Rat is a private individual and will not allow others to pry to closely into his own concerns. He likes to retain a certain independence in his actions. The Rat is a survivor and even when events go against him, he will often be the first to pick up the pieces and look for new challenges.
Being sociable, the Rat values relations with others and makes friends easily. He is supportive to his partner and will try to establish a close-knit family. He tends to have a large family and makes a loving and caring parent. With his wide interests and fertile imagination he will encourage his children but will also be a good disciplinarian.
The female Rat has a lively and outgoing manner, but no matter how successful or busy she might be, her family always comes first. The male Rat is confident and suave. But behind his personable air lurks a sharp mind.
The Rat is the first sign in the Chinese zodiac and, with his charm and outgoing manner, he is invariably popular and well-respected.
Famous Rats:
Colin Firth, Hugh Grant, Prince Harry, Samuel L. Jackson, Katy Perry, William Shakespeare, Prince of Wales.
Rat and Rat
General Relations
The Rat delights in the company of others and when it is another lively and sociable Rat, the two can have much fun together. Between them they have many interests they can share and, as both enjoy conversation, they may wile away many a happy hour locked in intense discussion.
When two Rats work together their combined skills can bring them considerable success. Both are enterprising and opportunistic, and both are keen to make the most out of their skills. Rats sometimes spread their energies too widely and become involved in more activites than they can sensibly handle. If they can control their restless and greedy natures, then a working relationship between them goes well.
In Love and Marriage
The attraction between two Rats is strong. Both are romantic and passionate and they have a good understanding of each other. Both delight in socializing, entertaining and travelling and may have a fondness for literature and the arts.
They place much value on their home life and, if they have children, make caring and protective parents. Rats value their family bonds and the Rat family is likely to be close knit. Although Rats can be indulgent, a Rat couple handles financial matters well and enjoy a good standard of living.
A Rat couple can find much happiness together but they would do well to maintain some separate interests rather than insist on complete togetherness. Also Rats can be forthright and highly critical and this may sometimes lead to acrimonious exchanges. However, as a couple they strive to overcome problems and make a devoted pair.
A good match
Rat and Ox
General Relations
Although the Rat and Ox have very different personalities -the Rat being far more outgoing then the Ox – these two signs get on well together. They trust and respect each other and can become firm friends. The Rat particularly appreciates the Ox’s confident and steadfast nature, while the Ox delights in the vivacity and charm of the Rat. General relations between the Rat and Ox are often excellent.
The Rat and Ox also work well together. The Rat is the master of PR and customer relations while the Ox provides method, order and consistency. They recognize and capitalize on each other’s strengths and there is a great deal of trust and respect between them. Together they can build up an excellent working relationship.
In Love and Marriage
There is a strong attraction between the Rat and the Ox and, in love and marriage, they can find much happiness. The character differences that exist between them often prove complementary and each loves and admires the other dearly.
The Rat is the more outgoing of the two and the Ox gains from the Rat’s vivacity, love of life and sociable nature. Under the Rat’s influence the Ox may become more outgoing and more at ease in his relations with others. Similarly, the Rat admires the Ox’s loyalty, strength of character and ambition. The Rat feels reassured by having such a resolute and reliable partner. Both attach much importance to their home and, if they have children, make caring and conscientious parents.
The Rat and the Ox also seek stability and security in their lives and with the Rat’s thrift and the Ox’s careful nature, most Rat-Ox couples are materially well off.
An excellent match
Rat and Tiger
General Relations
The Rat and Tiger are two lively and outgoing signs and they generally get on well together. Both are keen socializers and, with their wide interests, they invariably have interests they can share. The Tiger is very much taken with the Rat’s charm and personable manner while the Rat enjoys the Tiger’s vibrant, enthusiastic and confident personality.
When the Rat and Tiger work together each is quick to appreciate the strengths of the other. The Rat values the Tiger’s enterprise and enthusiasm, while the Tiger recognizes the Rat’s resourcefulness and ability to spot opportunities. Both are ambitious and both are capable of devising many wonderful and innovative ideas.
In Love and Marriage
The Rat and the Tiger are often attracted to each other. Both have lively and sociable natures and they enjoy each other’s company. They are also both highly passionate signs and the physical attraction between them is strong.
The Tiger delights in the Rat’s charming and sociable manner as well as appreciating his skills as a homemaker. The Rat, in turn, finds reassurance in the Tiger’s confident and ebullient manner.
However, their different attitudes to money may cause problems. The Tiger tends to be generous in his spending while the Rat is more thrifty. In addition, the Rat feels unsettled by the Tiger’s restless nature and he must accept that the Tiger needs a degree of independence. Both are frank in expressing their views and this may give rise to some heated exchanges.
Their relationship may not always be harmonious, but there is much love and passion between them.
A reasonably good match
Rat and Rabbit
General Relations
Although the Rat and the Rabbit are both sociable signs neither cares much for the other. The Rabbit, who has a calm and tranquil manner, feels ill at ease with the active and energetic Rat, while the Rat considers the Rabbit reserved and over-sensitive. They may delight in a once-in-a-while conversation but rarely do the two signs become close friends.
When the Rat and Rabbit work together, however, their different skills may prove complementary. The Rabbit appreciates the Rat’s skills at seeking out opportunities as well as his outgoing and action-oriented character. The Rat values the Rabbit’s organizational and commercial skills and shrewd judgement. Nevertheless, due to their different peronalities, they may not always feel completely at ease working together.
In Love and Marriage
The Rat and the Rabbit are two passionate and sensual signs and there may be a strong physical attraction between them. Both are charming and sociable, are homelovers and enjoy literature and the arts. The early stages of their relationship may bring much happiness, but the longer they know each other, the more difficult their relationship may become. Their temperaments are ill suited and, in love and marriage, a match between them may prove challenging.
The Rat is an active and energetic sign and tends to involve himself in a multitude of activities and interests. The Rabbit, however, seeks a much quieter and more settled lifestyle. The Rat may find the cautious nature of the Rabbit a restrictive influence while the Rabbit may find him brash and overbearing.
A difficult match
Rat and Dragon
General Relations
The Rat and the Dragon get on extremely well together. They are both lively, outgoing and sociable signs and they enjoy each other’s company. They have many interests in common and there is a great deal of trust and understanding between them. The Rat and Dragon may often become close and lifelong friends.
When the Rat and Dragon work together they can enjoy considerable success. Both are ambitious, entertaining and work hard, and each values the skills of the other. The Dragon, in particular, appreciates the Rat’s ability to seek out new opportunities and his skills at PR, while the Rat values the Dragon’s resolute and confident manner. They trust and support each other and in business make a formidable and successful team.
In Love and Marriage
This is a splendid match and in love and marriage the Rat and Dragon can find much happiness.
The Rat greatly admires the confident, determined and honourable nature of the Dragon and finds the Dragon lively and enjoyable company. Similarly, the Dragon loves the charm and sociable nature of the Rat as well as appreciating the Rat’s resourcefulness and versatility.
They love each other dearly and, as both have passionate and sensual natures, the physical attraction between them is strong – together the Rat and Dragon have much fun. Both are also keen socializers and take great pleasure in entertaining and travel. They value their home life and, if they have children, make caring and attentive parents.
An excellent match
Rat and Snake
General Relations
The Rat and Snake like and respect each other and general relations between them are often good. The Rat has many interests, a lively repartee and a charm that the Snake finds irresistible. The Rat in turn admires the Snake’s calm, collected and thoughtful nature. They enjoy each other’s company and while their tastes may not always converge – the Rat is much more a partygoer and socializer than the Snake – these two signs always have time for each other.
In business matters the Rat and Snake work well together. The Snake is the planner, organizer and adviser while the more action-orientated Rat sets plans into motion. The Snake also happily leaves the persuasive Rat to win over their customers but at the same time is a useful curb on some of the Rat’s more risky notions. Both are ambitlous, opportunist and materialistic.
In Love and Marriage
The attraction between these signs is strong. The Rat is captivated by the Snake’s quiet and seductive charm, while the Snake is drawn to the Rat’s warm, friendly and sensual nature. There is a powerful sexual chemistry between these two signs.
The two signs have similar outlooks; both are opportunists and both go through life intent on making the best of their abilities and skills. Both enjoy the material comforts in life and each aims for a high level of security. They are imaginative, enjoy intelligent discussion and may share a fondness for literature and the arts. They make caring and attentive parents and happily devote much time and energy to the upbringing of any children they have.
However, there are certain elements in their personalities that may cause problems. The Snake prefers to conduct his activities in a calm and measured way and may not always appreciate the Rat’s more aggressive and blustering style. Similarly, the Rat may sometimes feel restricted by the Snake’s possessive nature.
A good match
Rat and Horse
General Relations
The Rat and Horse are both outgoing signs and for a short time may find each other interesting company. However, their different temperaments may bring them into conflict and it is rare for the Rat and the Horse to become lasting friends. Both signs can be strong willed, opinionated and forthright in their views and this may lead to clashes between them. There is not much empathy between them and general relations between these two signs are poor.
Problems also emerge when the Rat and Horse work together, each wants to take the lead and dominate. There is mistrust between them; the Horse comes to view the Rat as conniving and thrifty, while the Rat sees the Horse as impulsive, impatient and short-tempered. There is little agreement between them and their competitive and independent spirits get the better of them – not a happy or successful arrangement.
In Love and Marriage
Both the Rat and Horse are romantic and passionate and they may fall deeply in love with each other. The Horse is seduced by the Rat’s irresistable charm and the Rat by the Horse’s lively and engaging manner. In the early stages of their relationship they have much fun.
However, relations between them quickly degenerate. Both the Rat and Horse are strong-willed and opinionated signs. Both are egoists and both want to dominate the relationship. The Rat is open and forthright in expressing his views and has little trouble in igniting the Horse’s short temper.
Differing attitudes towards money may also cause problems. The thrifty Rat likes to keep a close control over the purse strings and views the Horse as a spendthrift and over-generous, while the Horse considers the Rat materialistic and tight-fisted.
A turbulent relationship
Rat and Goat
General Relations
Both the Rat and Goat know how to enjoy themselves and have a fondness for the good life. Together they enjoy wining, dining and leading an active social life. For the short to medium term the Rat and Goat can become good friends but each has traits which irritate the other and in time they may drift apart.
The Rat and Goat do not work well together. The Rat is a supreme opportunist, constantly geared up for action and determined to make the most of his abilities. He is competitive and ambitious. The Goat, however, needs to feel inspired and encouraged by others. The Rat is a self-starter, the Goat needs to be prodded. In work they are best going their separate ways.
In Love and Marriage
The Rat and Goat are both friendly and sociable signs and are often attracted to each other. Both possess romantic and passionate natures and both exude a strong sex appeal.
However, a relationship is hard to maintain and the longer-term prospects for a match between the Rat and Goat are decidedly bleak. As the intensity of their feelings begins to fade they begin to discover the gulf that exists between them.
The Rat is hardworking, industrious and energetic, while the Goat sets about his activities in a more leisurely manner. The Rat is thrifty while the Goat is a spendthrift. The Rat can be forthright and candid in his views, while the Goat is sensitive, shrinks from arguments and takes the Rat’s criticisms very much to heart. The Rat has little time for the Goat’s artistic and sometimes whimsical nature, and in turn, the Goat may come to view the Rat as greedy, meddlesome and fussy.
A difficult relationship
Rat and Monkey
General Relations
With their lively and sociable natures, the Rat and Monkey get on well together. Each greatly admires the other and with their great sense of fun they relate well to each other. The Rat delights in the Monkey’s resourcefulness, wit and keen intellect while the Monkey enjoys the Rat’s charm, drive and ambition. They may become close and lasting friends.
These two signs also work well together. Both are cunning, opportunist and determined to succeed; both recognize this drive and commitment in the other. However both the Rat and the Monkey can be crafty and they may be tempted to outwit the other; neither would succeed, as both are masters in the art of self-preservation. If they can both keep their attention firmly on their joint objectives, they could enjoy considerable success.
In Love and Marriage
The attraction between a Rat and Monkey is strong and in love and marriage they can find much happiness. With their many mutual interests and similar outlooks they are well matched and make a close and loving couple.
Both are keen socializers and between them have many friends. They take great pleasure in entertaining at home. Rats and Monkeys like to live well and, with their money-making talents, most Rat-Monkey couples are financially secure.
The Monkey appreciates the Rat for his loyalty, judgement, enthusiasm and skills as a homemaker. The Rat, in turn, delights in the Monkey’s lively nature, quick wit, resourcefulness and enterprise. Although the Rat is more home Orientated than the Monkey, together they devote much time and energy to their home and to any children they have. Also – as both have a good sense of humour – there is a strong element of fun in their relationship.
An excellent match
Rat and Rooster
General Relations
Although the Rat and Rooster are two sociable and outgoing signs they do not relate well to each other. The Rat dislikes the vanity and egoism of the Rooster, while the Rooster finds the Rat too opportunist and manipulative.
Neither places much trust in the other. Both signs can be notoriously blunt in their views and their outspokenness may prove the deathknell for any friendship that might have existed between them.
The Rat and the Rooster do not work well together. The Rooster plans his activities to the finest detail and is highly organized, while the Rat is supreme at taking advantage of a situation and places great reliance on his charm and resourcefulness. The Rat finds the Rooster too much of a restraining influence, while the Rooster dislikes the opportunistic ways of the Rat. They are not a successful combination.
In Love and Marriage
Initially there may be a strong attraction between them. Both like to lead an active social life, are keen partygoers and both have a deep love of conversation. In the early stages of their relationship they may have much fun together, each charmed by the qualities of the other. However, the longer-term prospects are difficult and each sign needs to make major adjustments if they want to remain together.
Although they may share similar interests, their different personality traits may bring them into conflict. Both are forceful characters, with minds of their own, and each may try to dominate the relationship. The Rooster is precise, orderly and well organized; the Rat prefers to live day to day. There is likely to be much arguing and bickering and, with their forthright natures, each may be critical of the other.
A turbulent match
Rat and Dog
General Relations
The Rat and the Dog enjoy each other’s company and may become reasonably good friends. The Rat admires the loyal and trusting nature of the Dog, while the Dog enjoys the sociable and outgoing ways of the Rat. Together they may pass many a happy hour socializing and exchanging views.
When the Rat and Dog work together they may not always be in full agreement but they may still benefit from each other’s individual strengths. The Dog is not as materialistic as the Rat and the Dog may feel uneasy with the Rat’s opportunistic ways. Similarly the thrifty Rat may despair of the Dog’s spendthrift tendency. However, if they can reconcile their differences, the Dog can gain from the Rat’s confident and enterprising nature, while the Dog can bring order, method and discipline to the Rat’s ways of working.
In Love and Marriage
The Rat and Dog both possess qualities that the other admires and in love and marriage they can form a satisfactory relationship. The Rat greatly admires the loyalty and dependability of the Dog. He is mindful of the Dog’s advice and the Dog is a useful curb on his impulsive nature. The resourceful Rat instils confidence in the Dog and does much to alleviate some of his anxieties.
They are both romantic and passionate signs and attach much importance to their home. They each strive to make their home comfortable, and with their strong family ties, it is likely to be full of family heirlooms, mementos of childhood and other items of nostalgia.
However, problems may arise. The Rat is thrifty and careful with his money, while the Dog, in the Rat’s eyes, is over-generous. The Rat can be restless and enjoys change and challenges, while the Dog appreciates consistency and careful planning.
If they can reconcile their differences then the Rat and Dog can enjoy a content and fulfilling relationship.
A good match
Rat and Pig
General Relations
The Rat and Pig have many interests in common and often become close and loyal friends. They are both outgoing, like socializing and have a fondness for the good things in life. They enjoy each other’s company and often share similar viewpoints. General relations between these two signs are often excellent.
As colleagues or business partners, they can enjoy much success. Both work hard and diligently and both have entrepreneurial flair. The Pig delights in the Rat’s skill in seeking out opportunities and developing ideas, while the Rat appreciates the Pig’s commercial acumen and ability to make money. Providing the Rat does not try to take advantage of the Pig’s trusting nature, they make a successful and formidable partnership.
In Love and Marriage
There is considerable attraction between the Rat and Pig and, in love and marriage, they can find happiness. Both are passionate and sensual signs and there is a strong physical attraction between them.
The Rat and Pig are home-oriented signs and attach much importance to their home and family. They make caring and attentive parents and devote much time and energy into creating and maintaining their home; between them they make sure it is tastefully furnished. Their home may, however, quickly become full; with the Pig’s indulgence and the Rat’s acquisitive and hoarding nature, they could have more possessions than they know what to do with.
Between them the Rat and Pig have considerable earning ability; most Rat and Pig couples are financially secure and are able to enjoy a good standard of living.
An excellent match
The Ox (#ulink_daa3f789-d2d5-54c4-8f40-6eaedbf8b46c)
Key characteristics:
Resolute, strong willed, ambitious, careful, patient, stubborn.
In love:
Loyal, caring and dependable.
Whether ploughing a field or pulling a cart, the ox is a strong and disciplined worker. The second of the Chinese signs is governed by equilibrium and tenacity and has a calm, quiet and orderly manner. While he may appear reserved, he is both resolute and tenacious.
The Ox sets about life in a cautious and methodical way. He plans his activities carefully and does not like change or anything too gimmicky or innovative. The Ox is a down-to-earth sort of person and while he may sometimes lack tact, at least those who come in contact with him know exactly where he stands.
The Ox is methodical, diligent and often a loner. He likes to conduct his activities in his own way and to his own exacting standards. The Ox also prefers to specialize and have set interests rather than engage in a wide variety of activities.
The lady Ox is a practical person. She is keenly aware of her responsibilities and is supportive to her partner and her children. She also takes much delight in maintaining her home and others often marvel at her capabilities.
The male Ox is quiet but confident in his manner. He may not be as outgoing as other signs, but he has a sharp mind and a steely resolve.
However, the Ox does have his weaknesses. He can be stubborn and intransigent and does not adapt well to change. He can be prejudiced, inflexible and intolerant, he also has an awesome temper, although fortunately it is only used on rare occasions.
Famous Oxen
Napoleon Bonaparte, Charlie Chaplin, George Clooney, Keira Knightley, Barack Obama, Bruce Springsteen, Meryl Streep.
Ox and Ox
General Relations
There is respect and admiration between two Oxen but not always close friendship. Oxen are resolute, ambitious and often loners and while one Ox may recognize the qualities and tenacity in another Ox, they often prefer to keep their distance. Each Ox cherishes his independence and each likes to have his own way.
Both are hard and tenacious workers and if united by a common goal their perseverance and determination is invariably rewarded. In a working relationship between two Oxen it might be best if there is a clear division of responsibilities, otherwise there may be a tussle for authority. However, their ambitious and strong-willed natures can make them a powerful force.
In Love and Marriage
Oxen like secure, stable and calm lifestyles. As they have many common interests – and a mutual dislike of change – they may find a certain contentment together. As a couple they will conduct their activities in an orderly and efficient manner and as neither have expensive tastes most Ox couples are materially well off. Both also have practical natures and an Ox couple take much delight in creating and maintaining their home.
Oxen are loyal and faithful and keenly aware of their responsibilities, and as a couple there will be a great deal of trust between them. If Oxen have children they make conscientious, caring – but also strict – parents.
However, problems will arise. Both are strong-willed and stubborn so compromise may be difficult. As Oxen tend to be set in their ways, the relationship may be devoid of excitement or sparkle.
A good match
Ox and Tiger
General Relations
The Ox and Tiger are two forceful and determined signs and their personalities and temperaments simply clash. Neither finds it easy to relate to the other and general relations between them are poor. The practical and down-to-earth Ox finds the Tiger restless and volatile, while the Tiger views the Ox as unadventurous and intractable.
The differences in personality are also evident when they work together. The Tiger, often bubbling with enthusiasm and new ideas, finds the cautious Ox far too much of a restraining and inhibiting influence, while the Ox considers the Tiger rash, reckless and impulsive. Both signs clash and are likely to go their separate ways.
In Love and Marriage
A match between these two signs may prove both difficult and challenging.
Although there maybe initial attraction between the Ox and the Tiger, a relationship will be difficult to maintain. The Ox prefers to set about his activities in a calm, methodical and orderly manner, while the Tiger is far more adventurous and outgoing. He revels in challenges and new situations and indulges in a wide range of activities. The Ox and Tiger live life at different speeds and in different ways.
The two signs have few interests in common. The Tiger likes to lead an active social life, while the Ox is not a great socializer. The Tiger is passionate and seeks fun and – while the Ox too enjoys life in his own way – he tends not to be as outgoing as the Tiger and is far more serious and restrained.
A difficult match
Ox and Rabbit
General Relations
The Ox and Rabbit admire each other and can become firm and loyal friends. Both prefer the quieter things in life and have many interests they can share. They relate well to each other and there is a good level of trust and understanding between them.
Both are methodical, diligent and conscientious workers and they like to plan their activities carefully. In a business relationship each benefits from the other. The Rabbit values the strength, tenacity and resolution of the Ox, while the Ox appreciates the shrewd business sense and commercial acumen of the Rabbit. They trust and support each other well. Admittedly neither are big risk-takers and both are conservative in outlook, but their joint skills usually bring them much success.
In Love and Marriage
There is considerable attraction between the Ox and Rabbit and in love and marriage they can find much happiness.
Although there are many personality differences between them – the Ox being more assertive than the Rabbit – they complement each other well. The Rabbit delights in having such a resolute, dependable and protective partner, while the Ox values the thoughtful, intelligent and affectionate ways of the Rabbit. Both signs are quiet and peaceloving and neither wants to pursue a particularly frenzied or volatile lifestyle. They both value their home life and are most supportive and attentive to each other. Together they appreciate music, literature and the arts and may have a fondness for the countryside.
With their methodical and conscientious natures – they each have the skill to earn a great deal – most Ox-Rabbit couples are materially well off.
An ideal match
Ox and Dragon
General Relations
Although the Ox and Dragon may admire and respect each other they rarely become close friends. The Dragon is an extrovert, always active and a keen socializer. The Ox is quieter, more of a loner and lives life at a totally different speed to the Dragon. They have few interests in common and each prefers spending time with those more in tune with his own interests and personalities.
Relations between the Ox and Dragon improve when they work together. Both are ambitious and diligent workers and each recognizes the qualities in the other. The Ox values the enterprise and enthusiasm of the Dragon, while the Dragon appreciates the tenacity and persistence of the Ox. When united by a common objective the Ox and Dragon make a formidable team.
In Love and Marriage
The Ox and Dragon each have qualities that the other admires and for a time they may be attracted to each other. Each enjoys being with an opposite – an introvert exploring the world of an extrovert and vice versa.
However, despite any initial attraction between the Ox and Dragon, the long-term prospects for their relationship are difficult.
Both the Ox and Dragon are forceful characters and each may try to dominate the relationship. They can also both be stubborn and their forthright natures may lead to many heated exchanges. The Dragon likes to lead an active social life and engages in a wide variety of activities, while the Ox prefers a much gentler existence and prefers spending time quietly at home. The Dragon may feel restricted by the Ox, while the Ox may be unsettled by the restlessness of the Dragon.
A difficult match
Ox and Snake
General Relations
Thes Ox and Snake have much in common and general relations between them are good. Both have quiet and reserved natures and feel comfortable in each other’s company. There is trust and understanding between them and they relate well to each other. The Ox admires the Snake’s thoughtful and reflective ways, while the Snake values the Ox’s caring, confident and determined nature.
The Ox and Snake also work well together. Both are ambitious and keen to make the most of their considerable talents. The Snake in particular values the tenacity, willpower and determination of the Ox, while the Ox values the Snake’s keen business sense and original ideas. They trust and respect each other and as colleagues make a successful combination.
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О книге: Are you a sensual horse, an amorous goat or a quiet, seductive snake? All is revealed in this fascinating and fun guide to the 12 signs of the Chinese zodiac.Bestselling author Neil Somerville looks at the personalites of each sign, providing invaluable insights into how different signs relate to each other and offering an illuminating view of how different signs react when in love.Find out which signs will bring you the most happiness, which signs will give you the perfect love match, and how you can make the most of relationships with friends, business associates and children. For example, TIgers are born leaders who should match up with monkeys (for a sizzling romance) dogs (for a harmonious relationship) or horses (with whom you have much in common).