I Know What You Are: Part 1 of 3: The true story of a lonely little girl abused by those she trusted most
I Know What You Are: Part 1 of 3: The true story of a lonely little girl abused by those she trusted most
Jane Smith
Taylor Edison
The moving true story of a little girl with Asperger syndrome, controlled and abused by the one person she called her friend.Taylor had always struggled to make friends – she felt ‘different’. Taylor never knew her father and her mother wasn’t around much. She just didn’t understand people, and was alone and scared much of the time.That was until, aged just 11, an older married man called Tom befriended her. She loved having someone who would talk to her, listen to her, a protector. But when he moved away a few months later she was easy prey to the gang of drug dealers and petty criminals who groomed and abused her, using her as a form of currency to appease their debtors and amuse their friends.Increasingly isolated and desperate, it began to look as though the pattern of Taylor's life had been set – until she started to fight back, determined to build a safe future for herself, however long it took.
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© Taylor Edison and Jane Smith 2017
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Contents
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Title Page (#ub13ac705-e377-5e93-8861-79c3a7cad5bc)
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Preface (#u22129fc7-79a2-5dce-8c11-5aeedffbba22)
Chapter 1 (#u9e88976d-1601-568a-a58b-3bcf8c1828b0)
Chapter 2 (#ub9dfbd6e-888d-5236-97a4-3a28ac097b6f)
Chapter 3 (#ud718d3d9-ae13-5f17-877e-1bdbbf115da0)
Chapter 4 (#u4153dc54-5599-546a-8d8f-c0742496ca6a)
Moving Memoirs eNewsletter (#u6c41baa6-204c-583d-9092-c4f4f8c6e129)
About the Publisher (#u942e8c69-db4d-589f-86e9-f03f317984af)
Preface (#u0a3b2798-db61-59c2-a6aa-f6a123d115e6)
I used to feel angry with my mum because she didn’t intervene in what was going on when I was a child. But I realise that she’s got problems of her own and I just feel sorry for her now. What made me look at things differently was becoming a mum myself: I try really hard to do what’s best for my child – it’s just a natural instinct; so I think my mum must have been trying hard too.
I would have liked to have told my story without mentioning Mum at all, and especially without saying anything negative about her. But because most of it deals with abuse that occurred during my childhood, that would have made it seem as though she wasn’t there while I was growing up. And that isn’t true. So I’m just going to tell it the way it happened.
There are lots of reasons why people fall victim to abusers. In my case, it was partly because I have a type of autism called Asperger syndrome, which means that I have ‘significant difficulties in social interaction and non-verbal communication’. In other words, if someone tells me they’re my friend, for example, I believe them, even though the way they’re treating me is anything but friendly.
Friends have been a significant factor in my life – because I desperately wanted them as a child, because I didn’t know how to make them, and because my ‘social interaction and non-verbal communication’ problems meant that, for a long time, I wasn’t able to distinguish between my friends and my enemies.
I can’t change what happened to me from the age of 11. I know that some of it will continue to have an effect on me for the rest of my life. But I do try really hard to remember that I am not the bad person I believed I was when I was a little girl.
What’s crucially important when you have experienced abuse is to try not to define yourself in terms of ‘bad things happened to me as a child because I was a bad child’. That’s why I want to tell my story, because I hope it will help other people to realise that what is done to you isn’t what you are.
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Jane Smith
Taylor Edison
The moving true story of a little girl with Asperger syndrome, controlled and abused by the one person she called her friend.Taylor had always struggled to make friends – she felt ‘different’. Taylor never knew her father and her mother wasn’t around much. She just didn’t understand people, and was alone and scared much of the time.That was until, aged just 11, an older married man called Tom befriended her. She loved having someone who would talk to her, listen to her, a protector. But when he moved away a few months later she was easy prey to the gang of drug dealers and petty criminals who groomed and abused her, using her as a form of currency to appease their debtors and amuse their friends.Increasingly isolated and desperate, it began to look as though the pattern of Taylor's life had been set – until she started to fight back, determined to build a safe future for herself, however long it took.
(#u0a3b2798-db61-59c2-a6aa-f6a123d115e6)
Copyright (#u0a3b2798-db61-59c2-a6aa-f6a123d115e6)
Certain details in this story, including names, places and dates, have been changed to protect the family’s privacy.
HarperElement
An imprint of HarperCollinsPublishers
1 London Bridge Street
London SE1 9GF
www.harpercollins.co.uk (http://www.harpercollins.co.uk)
First published by HarperElement 2017
FIRST EDITION
© Taylor Edison and Jane Smith 2017
Cover layout design © HarperCollinsPublishers 2017
Cover photograph © Mark Owen/Trevillion Images (posed by model)
A catalogue record of this book is available from the British Library
Taylor Edison and Jane Smith assert the moral right to be identified as the authors of this work
All rights reserved under International and Pan-American Copyright Conventions. By payment of the required fees, you have been granted the nonexclusive, non-transferable right to access and read the text of this e-book on screen. No part of this text may be reproduced, transmitted, downloaded, decompiled, reverse engineered, or stored in or introduced into any information storage retrieval system, in any form or by any means, whether electronic or mechanical, now known or hereinafter invented, without the express written permission of HarperCollins e-books.
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Source ISBN: 9780008148027
Ebook Edition © February 2017 ISBN: 9780008216603
Version: 2016-12-20
Contents
Cover (#u2c4407c3-d469-5da3-8455-7403db847ec4)
Title Page (#ub13ac705-e377-5e93-8861-79c3a7cad5bc)
Copyright (#ua5712053-57c7-51f5-a4c2-a69158e6d887)
Preface (#u22129fc7-79a2-5dce-8c11-5aeedffbba22)
Chapter 1 (#u9e88976d-1601-568a-a58b-3bcf8c1828b0)
Chapter 2 (#ub9dfbd6e-888d-5236-97a4-3a28ac097b6f)
Chapter 3 (#ud718d3d9-ae13-5f17-877e-1bdbbf115da0)
Chapter 4 (#u4153dc54-5599-546a-8d8f-c0742496ca6a)
Moving Memoirs eNewsletter (#u6c41baa6-204c-583d-9092-c4f4f8c6e129)
About the Publisher (#u942e8c69-db4d-589f-86e9-f03f317984af)
Preface (#u0a3b2798-db61-59c2-a6aa-f6a123d115e6)
I used to feel angry with my mum because she didn’t intervene in what was going on when I was a child. But I realise that she’s got problems of her own and I just feel sorry for her now. What made me look at things differently was becoming a mum myself: I try really hard to do what’s best for my child – it’s just a natural instinct; so I think my mum must have been trying hard too.
I would have liked to have told my story without mentioning Mum at all, and especially without saying anything negative about her. But because most of it deals with abuse that occurred during my childhood, that would have made it seem as though she wasn’t there while I was growing up. And that isn’t true. So I’m just going to tell it the way it happened.
There are lots of reasons why people fall victim to abusers. In my case, it was partly because I have a type of autism called Asperger syndrome, which means that I have ‘significant difficulties in social interaction and non-verbal communication’. In other words, if someone tells me they’re my friend, for example, I believe them, even though the way they’re treating me is anything but friendly.
Friends have been a significant factor in my life – because I desperately wanted them as a child, because I didn’t know how to make them, and because my ‘social interaction and non-verbal communication’ problems meant that, for a long time, I wasn’t able to distinguish between my friends and my enemies.
I can’t change what happened to me from the age of 11. I know that some of it will continue to have an effect on me for the rest of my life. But I do try really hard to remember that I am not the bad person I believed I was when I was a little girl.
What’s crucially important when you have experienced abuse is to try not to define yourself in terms of ‘bad things happened to me as a child because I was a bad child’. That’s why I want to tell my story, because I hope it will help other people to realise that what is done to you isn’t what you are.
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Jane Smith и Taylor Edison
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Жанр: Семейная психология
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Дата публикации: 25.04.2024
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О книге: The moving true story of a little girl with Asperger syndrome, controlled and abused by the one person she called her friend.Taylor had always struggled to make friends – she felt ‘different’. Taylor never knew her father and her mother wasn’t around much. She just didn’t understand people, and was alone and scared much of the time.That was until, aged just 11, an older married man called Tom befriended her. She loved having someone who would talk to her, listen to her, a protector. But when he moved away a few months later she was easy prey to the gang of drug dealers and petty criminals who groomed and abused her, using her as a form of currency to appease their debtors and amuse their friends.Increasingly isolated and desperate, it began to look as though the pattern of Taylor′s life had been set – until she started to fight back, determined to build a safe future for herself, however long it took.